"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CaptainSK

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This is my first post! Ok, there is this chick in my class that sits beside me and I'm pretty sure shes attracted to me:rockon: . at least a bit
Yesterday I noticed something weird but im not sure if its just my imagination: I felt like she was imitating my posture... leaning back or foward crossing my arms and or legs... every time id move It was like soon after she would follow and sit in a way that would match my posture.

Now I've heard of imitating the posture of a girl while talking to hear to connect better but can girls do this without noticing?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MurdocNiccals

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I noticed a girl do this to me but I didn't think she was interested... Hope so, she's hot >: )
 

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Its call mirroring and we all do it without thinking about it all the time, but often its one of the signs of attraction in a boy/girl situation.

Try a couple of moves such as deliberately sitting back or forward, scratching your neck or yawning to see is she copies...
 

pipe007

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"Try a couple of moves such as deliberately sitting back or forward, scratching your neck or yawning to see is she copies."

to me she has already given you enough attraction signs, you can try one more time to see if she really is coping your moves, can be a sign of attraction... make your move already! or stop whinning about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Acq said:

lol is right.

If you like her, just ask her out. We can't sit back, reading imaginary signs waiting for everything to be jusssst perfect before asking someone out. If you like her, talk to her - make her laugh, if she's laughing, try to take the good vibe and bring it out of the classroom. And preferably to a bar....
 

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put your hand on your crotch, if she mirrors it and her hand ends up on your crotch too, she likes you.
really just talk to her, trying only to read body language will screw with your head.
 

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Try a couple of moves such as deliberately sitting back or forward, scratching your neck or yawning to see is she copies...[/QUOTE]

I did but nothing as obvious as yawning. But I'm positive now I have a green light and I know it. Il see her next class and make a move.

Tnx guys for helping me step in the world of the Djs
 

PapiChulo

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Stop reading into different signs -just go ask her out. Reading body language is a hit and miss thing - better just flip a coin unless you are an expert on this thing.
 

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Yes they do, now when you're in class try raising your left hand and putting it on your nose, then rub your belly with your right hand.

If she does this then I'm sure she's mirroring you or her nose is itchy and her stomach hurts...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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