Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This is my first post! Ok, there is this chick in my class that sits beside me and I'm pretty sure shes attracted to me:rockon: . at least a bit
Yesterday I noticed something weird but im not sure if its just my imagination: I felt like she was imitating my posture... leaning back or foward crossing my arms and or legs... every time id move It was like soon after she would follow and sit in a way that would match my posture.

Now I've heard of imitating the posture of a girl while talking to hear to connect better but can girls do this without noticing?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MurdocNiccals

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I noticed a girl do this to me but I didn't think she was interested... Hope so, she's hot >: )
 

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Its call mirroring and we all do it without thinking about it all the time, but often its one of the signs of attraction in a boy/girl situation.

Try a couple of moves such as deliberately sitting back or forward, scratching your neck or yawning to see is she copies...
 

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"Try a couple of moves such as deliberately sitting back or forward, scratching your neck or yawning to see is she copies."

to me she has already given you enough attraction signs, you can try one more time to see if she really is coping your moves, can be a sign of attraction... make your move already! or stop whinning about it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Acq said:

lol is right.

If you like her, just ask her out. We can't sit back, reading imaginary signs waiting for everything to be jusssst perfect before asking someone out. If you like her, talk to her - make her laugh, if she's laughing, try to take the good vibe and bring it out of the classroom. And preferably to a bar....
 

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put your hand on your crotch, if she mirrors it and her hand ends up on your crotch too, she likes you.
really just talk to her, trying only to read body language will screw with your head.
 

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Try a couple of moves such as deliberately sitting back or forward, scratching your neck or yawning to see is she copies...[/QUOTE]

I did but nothing as obvious as yawning. But I'm positive now I have a green light and I know it. Il see her next class and make a move.

Tnx guys for helping me step in the world of the Djs
 

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Stop reading into different signs -just go ask her out. Reading body language is a hit and miss thing - better just flip a coin unless you are an expert on this thing.
 

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Yes they do, now when you're in class try raising your left hand and putting it on your nose, then rub your belly with your right hand.

If she does this then I'm sure she's mirroring you or her nose is itchy and her stomach hurts...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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