"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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body language experts: please advise personal space zone ?

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when a girl moves or stays about three feet from you ,

or when she comes to you but stays about three feet away..

but she still talks to you ...or or keeps looking at you or pointing her feet at you....

does that mean, that she is not interested physically in you.....or does that mean she is scarred of you or feels threatened ?

Or does it mean she doesn't want to show interest....

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WTF does it mean ? I had this incident in the mall, I approach and the women move back three feet away, so I thought she's not interested, she's waiting for her daughter.,but she keeps loooking at me...?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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why do you care?

dont read into it too much.

you complicate yourself. Talk to her, get her number or ask her out on a date,
or kiss her on the spot whatever level you are confortable with.

just do what you want to do and the reaction will let you know.


FOR EVERY ACTION THERE IS A EQUAL REACTION so if you kiss then they kiss (if they are not attracted theyll let you know by moving their head, turning it into a hug or something)
 
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assume she's into you and just talk, but i would think if you moved closer and she moved away that yeah.. your chances are slim to none
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Body language hueristics must be interpreted as groups of related signs, rather than as lone, causal indicators.
 
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I'll tell you what it means. It means that you're spending too much time analyzing things in your head instead if taking action.
 
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TillTheEndOfTime said:
I'll tell you what it means. It means that you're spending too much time analyzing things in your head instead if taking action.
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Exactly...


Once you have to retreat to think about it, it is minigless. You must be present and respond immediately. She comes and stops 3 feet away from you. What do you expect? Her, 2 inches away from your face? Unfortunately girls don't do that.

Coming that close is an indicator of getting your attention. She is showing attention. Which in itself is minigless, since reasons for showing attention could be different. A) Shes into you, B) She wants her ego stroked, C) She wants to borrow a pencil, D) etc, etc, etc...


By taking action, he means find out what is it that she wants. Assuming she wants you to bone her on one single action is not reasonable and often you arrive to incorrect conclusions. Instead, you asses all her actions. By taking action you are presenting her with opprotunity to show you more..
 
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everywomanshero said:
Body language hueristics must be interpreted as groups of related signs, rather than as lone, causal indicators.
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ok...go on
 
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KneghtRyder said:
when a girl moves or stays about three feet from you ,

or when she comes to you but stays about three feet away..
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Usually means she is waiting for me to give her my order. Damn, some of you guys must just sit around thinking up things to worry about.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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