body language experts: please advise personal space zone ?

[KneghtRyder]

when a girl moves or stays about three feet from you ,

or when she comes to you but stays about three feet away..

but she still talks to you ...or or keeps looking at you or pointing her feet at you....

does that mean, that she is not interested physically in you.....or does that mean she is scarred of you or feels threatened ?

Or does it mean she doesn't want to show interest....

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WTF does it mean ? I had this incident in the mall, I approach and the women move back three feet away, so I thought she's not interested, she's waiting for her daughter.,but she keeps loooking at me...?

 

[KneghtRyder]

bump ...guys anyknow know ???

 

[krasnyiLion]

why do you care?

dont read into it too much.

you complicate yourself. Talk to her, get her number or ask her out on a date,
or kiss her on the spot whatever level you are confortable with.

just do what you want to do and the reaction will let you know.


FOR EVERY ACTION THERE IS A EQUAL REACTION so if you kiss then they kiss (if they are not attracted theyll let you know by moving their head, turning it into a hug or something)

 

[Full Throttle]

Forget all that stuff. Assume attraction and bone her.

 

[christz]

assume she's into you and just talk, but i would think if you moved closer and she moved away that yeah.. your chances are slim to none

 

[everywomanshero]

Body language hueristics must be interpreted as groups of related signs, rather than as lone, causal indicators.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

I'll tell you what it means. It means that you're spending too much time analyzing things in your head instead if taking action.

 

[djSlvt]

I'll tell you what it means. It means that you're spending too much time analyzing things in your head instead if taking action.

Exactly...


Once you have to retreat to think about it, it is minigless. You must be present and respond immediately. She comes and stops 3 feet away from you. What do you expect? Her, 2 inches away from your face? Unfortunately girls don't do that.

Coming that close is an indicator of getting your attention. She is showing attention. Which in itself is minigless, since reasons for showing attention could be different. A) Shes into you, B) She wants her ego stroked, C) She wants to borrow a pencil, D) etc, etc, etc...


By taking action, he means find out what is it that she wants. Assuming she wants you to bone her on one single action is not reasonable and often you arrive to incorrect conclusions. Instead, you asses all her actions. By taking action you are presenting her with opprotunity to show you more..

 

[KneghtRyder]

Body language hueristics must be interpreted as groups of related signs, rather than as lone, causal indicators.

ok...go on

 

[sparky0000]

when a girl moves or stays about three feet from you ,

or when she comes to you but stays about three feet away..

Usually means she is waiting for me to give her my order. Damn, some of you guys must just sit around thinking up things to worry about.