"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BowTie

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This girl in my History class waited for me after class and is always really talkative (This could just be her personality but dunno). Anyway it was after an exam and we ends up giving me a hifive when she sees my grade. I kind of grab her hand and slide slowly down her fingers squeezing (I like to test how girls react to touch). She didn't back away or anything, or fidget.

I figure this is a good opportunity to go for the #. I was totally calm and chill, but this girl that is usually fast and talkative, when I asked for her # she kind of acted a little nervous I think she even stuttered a little.

Then when adding my name she FORGOT IT! LOL. I laughed, I think she got so nervous her mind kind of went blank to be honest. I already had her on facebook. The entire situation was pretty funny looking back on it. But there are def IOIs, her waiting for me after class, hi five kino etc. Opinions? Or is this just goofy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If she waited for you then yes she likes you. She probably wanted you to ask her out (or ask her to do something) right then.
 

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She likes you. Ask her out, dont do anything stupid, isolate and escalate when the time is right and eventually she'll end up in your bed.
 

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I texted her on fb but now she isn't responding. She works weekends so who knows. Oh well I'll see what happens.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Facebook is bad for getting with girls. I deleted mine a while ago but when I did add girls I hated the fact they knew everything about me.. where I was, what I do, when I posted. No mystery going on. I think it ruins the game to be honest.
 

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BowTie said:
I texted her on fb but now she isn't responding. She works weekends so who knows. Oh well I'll see what happens.
Don't send her too many messages. She already let you know she likes you. Keep texting to a minimum imo.

If she wants to talk to u let it be a phone conversation.
 
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Chamber36 said:
Don't send her too many messages. She already let you know she likes you. Keep texting to a minimum imo.

If she wants to talk to u let it be a phone conversation.
Yup, if she doesn't write back forget it. Don't even bring up that you FBed her. Talk in person now. If she doesn't respond, she's not interested or still playing, either way, you need a fresh start.

Sometimes women flirt to be polite or are driven to flirt subconsciously and later consciously put a stop to it when something awakens them. Maybe asking for her number was too advanced for her attraction level and she got derailed.
 
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