"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This girl in my History class waited for me after class and is always really talkative (This could just be her personality but dunno). Anyway it was after an exam and we ends up giving me a hifive when she sees my grade. I kind of grab her hand and slide slowly down her fingers squeezing (I like to test how girls react to touch). She didn't back away or anything, or fidget.

I figure this is a good opportunity to go for the #. I was totally calm and chill, but this girl that is usually fast and talkative, when I asked for her # she kind of acted a little nervous I think she even stuttered a little.

Then when adding my name she FORGOT IT! LOL. I laughed, I think she got so nervous her mind kind of went blank to be honest. I already had her on facebook. The entire situation was pretty funny looking back on it. But there are def IOIs, her waiting for me after class, hi five kino etc. Opinions? Or is this just goofy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If she waited for you then yes she likes you. She probably wanted you to ask her out (or ask her to do something) right then.
 
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She likes you. Ask her out, dont do anything stupid, isolate and escalate when the time is right and eventually she'll end up in your bed.
 
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I texted her on fb but now she isn't responding. She works weekends so who knows. Oh well I'll see what happens.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Facebook is bad for getting with girls. I deleted mine a while ago but when I did add girls I hated the fact they knew everything about me.. where I was, what I do, when I posted. No mystery going on. I think it ruins the game to be honest.
 
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BowTie said:
I texted her on fb but now she isn't responding. She works weekends so who knows. Oh well I'll see what happens.
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Don't send her too many messages. She already let you know she likes you. Keep texting to a minimum imo.

If she wants to talk to u let it be a phone conversation.
 
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Chamber36 said:
Don't send her too many messages. She already let you know she likes you. Keep texting to a minimum imo.

If she wants to talk to u let it be a phone conversation.
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Yup, if she doesn't write back forget it. Don't even bring up that you FBed her. Talk in person now. If she doesn't respond, she's not interested or still playing, either way, you need a fresh start.

Sometimes women flirt to be polite or are driven to flirt subconsciously and later consciously put a stop to it when something awakens them. Maybe asking for her number was too advanced for her attraction level and she got derailed.
 
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