"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Body language ask #

BowTie

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 1, 2012
Messages
27
Reaction score
0
This girl in my History class waited for me after class and is always really talkative (This could just be her personality but dunno). Anyway it was after an exam and we ends up giving me a hifive when she sees my grade. I kind of grab her hand and slide slowly down her fingers squeezing (I like to test how girls react to touch). She didn't back away or anything, or fidget.

I figure this is a good opportunity to go for the #. I was totally calm and chill, but this girl that is usually fast and talkative, when I asked for her # she kind of acted a little nervous I think she even stuttered a little.

Then when adding my name she FORGOT IT! LOL. I laughed, I think she got so nervous her mind kind of went blank to be honest. I already had her on facebook. The entire situation was pretty funny looking back on it. But there are def IOIs, her waiting for me after class, hi five kino etc. Opinions? Or is this just goofy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Uncharted

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 1, 2013
Messages
740
Reaction score
47
Location
Brooklyn, NY
If she waited for you then yes she likes you. She probably wanted you to ask her out (or ask her to do something) right then.
 

JoeMarron

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 25, 2012
Messages
1,301
Reaction score
64
Age
35
She likes you. Ask her out, dont do anything stupid, isolate and escalate when the time is right and eventually she'll end up in your bed.
 

BowTie

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 1, 2012
Messages
27
Reaction score
0
I texted her on fb but now she isn't responding. She works weekends so who knows. Oh well I'll see what happens.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

HappyHarryHardon

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 16, 2011
Messages
154
Reaction score
2
Facebook is bad for getting with girls. I deleted mine a while ago but when I did add girls I hated the fact they knew everything about me.. where I was, what I do, when I posted. No mystery going on. I think it ruins the game to be honest.
 

Chamber36

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2011
Messages
1,556
Reaction score
286
Location
Amsterdam
BowTie said:
I texted her on fb but now she isn't responding. She works weekends so who knows. Oh well I'll see what happens.
Don't send her too many messages. She already let you know she likes you. Keep texting to a minimum imo.

If she wants to talk to u let it be a phone conversation.
 
Joined
Nov 8, 2007
Messages
95
Reaction score
1
Chamber36 said:
Don't send her too many messages. She already let you know she likes you. Keep texting to a minimum imo.

If she wants to talk to u let it be a phone conversation.
Yup, if she doesn't write back forget it. Don't even bring up that you FBed her. Talk in person now. If she doesn't respond, she's not interested or still playing, either way, you need a fresh start.

Sometimes women flirt to be polite or are driven to flirt subconsciously and later consciously put a stop to it when something awakens them. Maybe asking for her number was too advanced for her attraction level and she got derailed.
 
Top