"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Body Image

LeChanteur

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Hey guys, got a little trouble here I could use some help with.

My GF and I have a really good relationship. However, she has recently admitted that she has a body image problem. She thinks she's fat (she is far from fat, believe me) and doesn't believe me when I tell her as she says that 'thats just what anyone'd say.'

I'm kind of in a "damned if i do damned if i dont" situation as I want to help her out but don't know what to do. Any ideas?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Panda 2000

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I say that's her problem, not yours.
 

blinkwatt

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If she is insecure about something,"learn to love it". If she has a mole she wants removed,kiss it. Let her know its not a big deal.

She thinks that she is fat? Show her fat,look up "fat women" on google and show her those are fat. While you are showing her tell her that,"These women are fat,you are not. Infact I wouldn't have you any other way." Make sure she feels secure about it. Or just tell her,"If you were fat I would have left you." with a serious look on your face.
 
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