"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Body Image

LeChanteur

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Hey guys, got a little trouble here I could use some help with.

My GF and I have a really good relationship. However, she has recently admitted that she has a body image problem. She thinks she's fat (she is far from fat, believe me) and doesn't believe me when I tell her as she says that 'thats just what anyone'd say.'

I'm kind of in a "damned if i do damned if i dont" situation as I want to help her out but don't know what to do. Any ideas?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Panda 2000

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I say that's her problem, not yours.
 

blinkwatt

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If she is insecure about something,"learn to love it". If she has a mole she wants removed,kiss it. Let her know its not a big deal.

She thinks that she is fat? Show her fat,look up "fat women" on google and show her those are fat. While you are showing her tell her that,"These women are fat,you are not. Infact I wouldn't have you any other way." Make sure she feels secure about it. Or just tell her,"If you were fat I would have left you." with a serious look on your face.
 
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