"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Body Image

LeChanteur

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Hey guys, got a little trouble here I could use some help with.

My GF and I have a really good relationship. However, she has recently admitted that she has a body image problem. She thinks she's fat (she is far from fat, believe me) and doesn't believe me when I tell her as she says that 'thats just what anyone'd say.'

I'm kind of in a "damned if i do damned if i dont" situation as I want to help her out but don't know what to do. Any ideas?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Panda 2000

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I say that's her problem, not yours.
 

blinkwatt

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If she is insecure about something,"learn to love it". If she has a mole she wants removed,kiss it. Let her know its not a big deal.

She thinks that she is fat? Show her fat,look up "fat women" on google and show her those are fat. While you are showing her tell her that,"These women are fat,you are not. Infact I wouldn't have you any other way." Make sure she feels secure about it. Or just tell her,"If you were fat I would have left you." with a serious look on your face.
 
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