Demodulate
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20-25% is fine by me..
the extremes are not appealing to me at all..
the extremes are not appealing to me at all..
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
haha been there.origin138 said:If I'm drunk, it can increase to 28%, not gonna lie.
zekko said:I was wondering what kind of body fat percentage you guys like in a woman? Here's a link with some pictures of men and women with various body fat percentages. Scroll about a quarter of the way down to get to them:
http://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/2012/07/02/body-fat-percentage/
Of these, I would pick the 20-21% girl to be the most pleasing to the eye. Although admittedly, she looks a little flat. The boobs on the 25-26% girl look a lot better, but the rest of her is a bit chunky. The 17-18% girl isn't bad either. I don't like the "hyperfit" look of the 15% and below girls. I think girls should look a little soft, not look like bodybuilders.
Regarding the males, if I could look like any one of those guys, I'd probably pick the 9-10% dude. That 3-4% guy looks like a muscle diagram in an anatomy book.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
there's a matchmaking service in this posted blog postREAREA, get over yourself, the truth is that women have far higher and much more static physical standards for men than men will EVER have for women:
http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/15/womens-physical-standards/
there's a matchmaking service in this posted blog post
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Due to the increased muscle sizes or increased definition?Go to the 20-21% women body fat.
Those hiper fit seems weird. There is a woman here in my town that I gave her a 10, she is just a perfect blue eye and blond girl.
Then she started crossfit and become so strong that she lost all her feminine side. I think it get weird because it start to appear like a masculine body.
ok, do you have an example picture from internet?Go to the 20-21% women body fat.
Those hiper fit seems weird. There is a woman here in my town that I gave her a 10, she is just a perfect blue eye and blond girl.
Then she started crossfit and become so strong that she lost all her feminine side. I think it get weird because it start to appear like a masculine body.
Increased definition and also muscle size. But I'm not telling that this is ugly... it's just not the type of woman I feel attracted for.Due to the increased muscle sizes or increased definition?
Of that girl or similar one?ok, do you have an example picture from internet?
ok, I was thinking of similar but I'll go look in previous posts here in this thread-forgot there was some pics hereOf that girl or similar one?
She is getting very similar to that 11% body fat women on that link OP sent us.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes, that would be a very muscular look(the 11%)-very angular and yes, masculineOf that girl or similar one?
She is getting very similar to that 11% body fat women on that link OP sent us.
Yes, I prefer the one with 20%... It feels more feminine.Yes, that would be a very muscular look(the 11%)-very angular and yes, masculine
slightly wider hips and actual boobs would be perfect on that pic(20%)-that would be ultimate feminineYes, I prefer the one with 20%... It feels more feminine.
That would be great too! hahahaslightly wider hips and actual boobs would be perfect on that pic(20%)-that would be ultimate feminine
Yes, men are dumb because they don't want to deal with your tree trunk legs and bad attitude. You sure taught us a lesson.Men want a woman with a low body fat percentage that happens to have big boobs and a big butt. The original poster reinforces that. He wants a girl who is 20-21% BF who has the boobs of the girls with the higher body fat %
Men are dumb. They dont get that the vast majority of women are born with "proportional genes" Meaning, the smaller they are and the flatter their stomach, the smaller their boobs and butt will get. I know a few who hit the genetic lottery and are able to have a lower body fat percentage with big boobs/butt, but not many can without surgery. This is why in Hollywood you see people who work out like crazy and then get boob jobs.
Most women cannot win. If she is thin and fit, her ass and tits arent big enough. If she has a big butt and a huge rack, most men will find her to not be thin enough. I am thin and fit, work out 5 days a week and eat healthy, and have decided that is worth the sacrifice of C and D cups. I look similar to the 20-21% girl. But that is because I have long given up trying to meet the unrealistic standards of men and do whatever the hell I want.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.