Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
BMW or Mercedes?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
edger
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As far as cars are concerned, as long as I don't have something that's falling apart or looks like crap, I'm fine. Typically I'm into sporty cars. And as far as SUV's go, the Range Rover is the only SUV I'd ever drive, because of it's cool look. But like I said, as long as the vehicle isn't falling apart and doesn't look like sh*t(broken windows, rust, smashed up), I'm fine.
And who cares what the ladies like. F*ck 'em. Get a car that you like. Don't be one of those idiots who has to have a Mercedes or BMW because it shows off your financial situation, because that's lame. Showoff's are lame. Get a life, like I seriously care what kind of car you're driving. I'm not directing this at you by the way.
SickAgain
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But getting a car for the ladies is the dumbest thing ever. It screams insecurity and is a confidence crutch. Get it because its a badass ride.
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However....... when I hit the gas and took the corner......then..... I could see why people pay so much for them.. It was FvCking awesome to drive..
Instant power delivery... no bog or hesitation at all....just GO!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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SickAgain said:
.Now that we got that out the way, BMW is a bit more focused on performance, Benzes are just a bit more luxury.
I love the E350 though, my aunt has it, so fun to drive (haven't driven a 5-series though).
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If you want fancy, get a Jag.
bbestar
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he is right
ladies LOVE the jag's
get the Jaguar XF
but if you really want to impress the ladies get the XK convertible.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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6cyl... Oh yes.
Who the ladies like better? A man that is NOT broke.DonJuan11 said:
And with the price of diesel (higher than gasoline) and the price of repairs and maintenance in the U.S. (lot higher than domestic and other foreign vehicles)...I think you are picking a vehicle for the wrong reasons.
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Nah..... when I pull up in my 1990 Chrysler New Yorker, I get a swarm of chicas around me...Latinoman said:
Hey...what can I say?.... it's got metal flake paint, man.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Maintenance still the factor. European cars are considerably more expensive than American or Japanese when it comes to maintenance and repairs.azanon said:
But that's beside the point...choosing a vehicle should be for other reasons other than "attracting women".
Daddy The Pimp
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That car is for James Bond
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.