You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SickAgain said:Edger is dumb
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I assume you have a 6-figure income? If not, I suggest practicing more frugality.DonJuan11 said:BMW 5 series or Mercedes E class? Which is better and which one do the ladies like better?
Who the ladies like better? A man that is NOT broke.DonJuan11 said:BMW 5 series or Mercedes E class? Which is better and which one do the ladies like better?
Nah..... when I pull up in my 1990 Chrysler New Yorker, I get a swarm of chicas around me...Latinoman said:Buying a vehicle to impress the ladies is AFC.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
At the current spread in price on diesel vs. gasoline, it's mostly a wash. Most diesels get significantly better gas mileage, which will approximately compensate for the extra cost of the fuel.Latinoman said:And with the price of diesel (higher than gasoline).
Maintenance still the factor. European cars are considerably more expensive than American or Japanese when it comes to maintenance and repairs.azanon said:At the current spread in price on diesel vs. gasoline, it's mostly a wash. Most diesels get significantly better gas mileage, which will approximately compensate for the extra cost of the fuel.
I'm not buying to impress the ladies. I was just curious.Latinoman said:Buying a vehicle to impress the ladies is AFC.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.