"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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BMW or Mercedes?

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BMW 5 series or Mercedes E class? Which is better and which one do the ladies like better?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who cares? Both cars in my opinion suck.

As far as cars are concerned, as long as I don't have something that's falling apart or looks like crap, I'm fine. Typically I'm into sporty cars. And as far as SUV's go, the Range Rover is the only SUV I'd ever drive, because of it's cool look. But like I said, as long as the vehicle isn't falling apart and doesn't look like sh*t(broken windows, rust, smashed up), I'm fine.

And who cares what the ladies like. F*ck 'em. Get a car that you like. Don't be one of those idiots who has to have a Mercedes or BMW because it shows off your financial situation, because that's lame. Showoff's are lame. Get a life, like I seriously care what kind of car you're driving. I'm not directing this at you by the way.
 
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Edger is dumb don't listen to that drivel. I got a 5 Series, it's honestly one of the best cars I have ever driven. The technology and engineering that goes into the development of these cars are astounding. But that's just my opinion. My advice is to test drive both cars and see which one you like better. You also by want to look at a G series Lexus, those are nice too. I think beamers are a little more sportier in general than mercedes. and mercedes is more suitable for an older crowd.

But getting a car for the ladies is the dumbest thing ever. It screams insecurity and is a confidence crutch. Get it because its a badass ride.
 
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I drove my boss's BMW, and it wasn't really anything cool looking.. I mean it was nice, but it looked like any other Datsun or whatever..

However....... when I hit the gas and took the corner......then..... I could see why people pay so much for them.. It was FvCking awesome to drive..
Instant power delivery... no bog or hesitation at all....just GO!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The ladies love Mercedes.

Now that we got that out the way, BMW is a bit more focused on performance, Benzes are just a bit more luxury.

I love the E350 though, my aunt has it, so fun to drive (haven't driven a 5-series though).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuan11 said:
BMW 5 series or Mercedes E class? Which is better and which one do the ladies like better?
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I assume you have a 6-figure income? If not, I suggest practicing more frugality.
 
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DonJuan11 said:
BMW 5 series or Mercedes E class? Which is better and which one do the ladies like better?
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Who the ladies like better? A man that is NOT broke.

And with the price of diesel (higher than gasoline) and the price of repairs and maintenance in the U.S. (lot higher than domestic and other foreign vehicles)...I think you are picking a vehicle for the wrong reasons.
 
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Latinoman said:
Buying a vehicle to impress the ladies is AFC.
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Nah..... when I pull up in my 1990 Chrysler New Yorker, I get a swarm of chicas around me...

Hey...what can I say?.... it's got metal flake paint, man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Latinoman said:
And with the price of diesel (higher than gasoline).
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At the current spread in price on diesel vs. gasoline, it's mostly a wash. Most diesels get significantly better gas mileage, which will approximately compensate for the extra cost of the fuel.
 
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azanon said:
At the current spread in price on diesel vs. gasoline, it's mostly a wash. Most diesels get significantly better gas mileage, which will approximately compensate for the extra cost of the fuel.
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Maintenance still the factor. European cars are considerably more expensive than American or Japanese when it comes to maintenance and repairs.

But that's beside the point...choosing a vehicle should be for other reasons other than "attracting women".
 
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Latinoman said:
Buying a vehicle to impress the ladies is AFC.
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I'm not buying to impress the ladies. I was just curious.

I look for a smooth ride and power in a car. I have enough funds to $60 - 70K.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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