"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Blue Valentine - The movie (Rollo's recommendation)

DonJuan_DeRosco

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So I was reading rational male the other day and Rollo mentioned a film called 'Blue Valentine'. Having never heard of it, I decided to obtain it and watch it.

This film should be required viewing for everyone! It should be in the DJ Bible as a must see! Never before has the truth of it all been contained within one medium, this film is it. It is not a comfortable film to watch, it forced me to relive some moments in my life that I thought I wouldn't again and made me think of the numerous bros who have been through it all as well.

If you haven't seen it, watch it, NOW!


I'm glad I watched this, but Rollo, I can't thank you for it. The disc is now in bits and I'll never watch it again. I could feel my heart hardening further into diamond with every passing second and it has left a bitter taste in my mouth.

Good health to you all.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ordered this dvd a few days ago, I suspect Im not going to enjoy what I see and will probably re visit some of my old self
 

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It's a good one. Not sure how it would come up in a "seduction/DJ" context unless you want to interpret the ending a certain way. But nevertheless I'll second it, good movie.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fellas, that movie was depressing as sht. What the hell are you all watching?


[SPOILER ALERT]
This is NOT life. He married.... a h.s. chick... a PREGNANT h.s. chick... who fked with 25 guys... and the child wasn't even his!
[SPOILER ALERT END]

It should be in the DJ Bible
Hell. NO. It does not offer anything valuable. Except for maybe neg+compliment. That was the only part of the movie I enjoyed. Other than that. HELL. NO.
 
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