"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Blue Valentine - The movie (Rollo's recommendation)

DonJuan_DeRosco

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So I was reading rational male the other day and Rollo mentioned a film called 'Blue Valentine'. Having never heard of it, I decided to obtain it and watch it.

This film should be required viewing for everyone! It should be in the DJ Bible as a must see! Never before has the truth of it all been contained within one medium, this film is it. It is not a comfortable film to watch, it forced me to relive some moments in my life that I thought I wouldn't again and made me think of the numerous bros who have been through it all as well.

If you haven't seen it, watch it, NOW!


I'm glad I watched this, but Rollo, I can't thank you for it. The disc is now in bits and I'll never watch it again. I could feel my heart hardening further into diamond with every passing second and it has left a bitter taste in my mouth.

Good health to you all.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ordered this dvd a few days ago, I suspect Im not going to enjoy what I see and will probably re visit some of my old self
 

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It's a good one. Not sure how it would come up in a "seduction/DJ" context unless you want to interpret the ending a certain way. But nevertheless I'll second it, good movie.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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EvilAgenda

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Fellas, that movie was depressing as sht. What the hell are you all watching?


[SPOILER ALERT]
This is NOT life. He married.... a h.s. chick... a PREGNANT h.s. chick... who fked with 25 guys... and the child wasn't even his!
[SPOILER ALERT END]

It should be in the DJ Bible
Hell. NO. It does not offer anything valuable. Except for maybe neg+compliment. That was the only part of the movie I enjoyed. Other than that. HELL. NO.
 
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