"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Blue Valentine - The movie (Rollo's recommendation)

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So I was reading rational male the other day and Rollo mentioned a film called 'Blue Valentine'. Having never heard of it, I decided to obtain it and watch it.

This film should be required viewing for everyone! It should be in the DJ Bible as a must see! Never before has the truth of it all been contained within one medium, this film is it. It is not a comfortable film to watch, it forced me to relive some moments in my life that I thought I wouldn't again and made me think of the numerous bros who have been through it all as well.

If you haven't seen it, watch it, NOW!


I'm glad I watched this, but Rollo, I can't thank you for it. The disc is now in bits and I'll never watch it again. I could feel my heart hardening further into diamond with every passing second and it has left a bitter taste in my mouth.

Good health to you all.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ordered this dvd a few days ago, I suspect Im not going to enjoy what I see and will probably re visit some of my old self
 

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It's a good one. Not sure how it would come up in a "seduction/DJ" context unless you want to interpret the ending a certain way. But nevertheless I'll second it, good movie.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Fellas, that movie was depressing as sht. What the hell are you all watching?


[SPOILER ALERT]
This is NOT life. He married.... a h.s. chick... a PREGNANT h.s. chick... who fked with 25 guys... and the child wasn't even his!
[SPOILER ALERT END]

It should be in the DJ Bible
Hell. NO. It does not offer anything valuable. Except for maybe neg+compliment. That was the only part of the movie I enjoyed. Other than that. HELL. NO.
 
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