"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Blow it inside or no?

Ridingthelightning

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I never came inside a woman's *****. My girl is on birth control and doesn't want kids at this moment. I know she has dated other guys that have blown inside her because she seemed a little perplexed I never have and said, "Well, I'm on birth control."
It's not a big deal, but I just want to know what others think about it. It's like a phobia. I still bang her sans condom, just don't let loose the juice.
I've banged a few women in the ass and didn't stop till I "O" faced, and that felt amazing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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best feeling in the world, and only the lucky ones get out of it without having unwanted babies or unwanted STD's.

Just because I was lucky, doesn't mean you will be........this is one of those questions that has no answer........because the pleasure is SO INTENSE, SO PERFECT......but then it hits you, and you are left with days and weeks of worrying, all up until the girl gets her period.
 

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Rescue Mission said:
best feeling in the world, and only the lucky ones get out of it without having unwanted babies or unwanted STD's.

Just because I was lucky, doesn't mean you will be........this is one of those questions that has no answer........because the pleasure is SO INTENSE, SO PERFECT......but then it hits you, and you are left with days and weeks of worrying, all up until the girl gets her period.
And then when you find out she's not pregnant THAT month... you both go out and celebrate with drinks and keep it doing it that way... and then more weeks pass by and you are worried again...

It's a great way to lose weight though.

If you barely know this girl THAT well, as in, you guys haven't been with each other too long... how can you be sure she's on the pill???

Just be careful. I'd rather be safe than feel that intense pleasure for 15 seconds.

So take heed in what RM is saying. Ultimately, you have to decide what you'd rather do for the sake of your own mental sanity.
 

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I don't have a problem with it, done it with a dozen chicks or so. The last chick I did it with said, "Most guys pull out before they come." I said, "I'm sure you don't want to have a kid with me, sweetheart." She was on depo-provera.
 

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I've always cummed inside with LTRs (but of course, this is after knowing them very well and knowing they're on the pill). I will tell you, there is no other feeling like it in the world. Physically and psychologically. For both.

But something doesn't add up here: the girl doesn't want kids, is on birth control but is not opposed to you cumming inside? I would think that if she really doesn't want kids, not only would she be on birth control, she would insist on you using condom.

Even if you don't ejaculate inside, from the precum there is a small probability that she could get pregnant if the birth control fails and she ovulates that month...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Have to concur on how awesome it is, but risky even if its with someone you trust.
 

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Blowing inside an orifice is always so much better than pulling out last minute. However, to me it doesn't matter whether that's her cooter, mouth or bum(then again, inside her ass is SO tight and warm).
 

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It is the best feeling... but is it worth it?

There is only one chick I have done that with, the rest I always used condoms.
 

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So... What I've come to the conclusion of is the same thing everyone who posted came to the conclusion of. Lol.
It'd be lots of fun, I've blown in hand mouth and ass and I know how good those feel. She also said she isn't opposed to letting me blow in the back of her throat, but she was drunk then. Regardless I'm sure I'll make a deposit in her honey pot soon enough.
 

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I've done it plenty of times with a girlfriend on the pill. Sure, it's nice but you guys who say "it's the best feeling in the world" are crazy. It's not THAT great.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's not THAT great.
What's better beside achieving great success? - Okay, maybe I am a bit overboard with that lol
 

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Plinco said:
What's better beside achieving great success? - Okay, maybe I am a bit overboard with that lol

I've probably just gotten laid too much and it's not that great to me anymore.

Since I've been there and done that, I get more pleasure out of meeting a new hottie and plowing it for an hour even if I don't bust. I think that feels better than busting a raw nut.
 

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the better feeling is to blow inside a woman's mouth, with her mouth closed, and she's swallowing all of it. Why? She has more control over her mouth. While you are orgasming, she'd keep sucking it up to the point you begged her to stop.

That, my friend, is the best feeling.
 

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sharkybear said:
the better feeling is to blow inside a woman's mouth, with her mouth closed, and she's swallowing all of it. Why? She has more control over her mouth. While you are orgasming, she'd keep sucking it up to the point you begged her to stop.

That, my friend, is the best feeling.

I agree. And then she looks up at you and does the GULP.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Have you seen her physically take the pill? If she gets pregnant, have you guys hammered out a plan?

My advice is a big NO. It's not worth those 10 seconds of pleasure. Especially if the evidence of BC is purely anecdotal.

This is your life man...the fact that she doesn't want kids but isn't insisting on a condom (or at least proving to you she is on the pill) puts a big red flag up.

Again...your life...you will be the one paying for the next 18 years and possibly ruining your ambitions for 10 seconds of pleasure.
 
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