"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys so Im starting to get serious about this self improvement so I though i'd start a blog to post about my progress.

http://newjoey.weebly.com/

Feel free to check it out in all honesty it sucks right now I'm just getting started and plan to figure it out as I go along (just like with women ;) )

Feel free to leave comments with any advice/feedback you have and ways I can improve my blog or my DJing skills.

-Joey Brown
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Keep it up and stay true to your goals. Every decision you make ask yourself if you'd be proud of it a year down the line. Good luck
 

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Chances are the blog posting will stop after a few posts, that what happens with most people.
 

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mangotot said:
Chances are the blog posting will stop after a few posts, that what happens with most people.
Very true and entirely possible. However Since I find myself keep quitting I feel if I put my progress in a public place I will be more motivated to

1) Actually keep up with it

2) Go out and push myself to have some cool stuff to write about

It may or may not work but I'm commiting to posting.
 

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Hey Joseph! Sweet. I'll check it out. You ever thought about just purchasing a domain or did you want to start out with weebly?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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New post. Week in review check it out :)

Any moderators reading this I just wanna make sure it's cool that I am promoting my journal. I didn't read the policys when I signed up (Who does ;) )
I see other guys writing journals on here I just feel likes its more personal and I can customize it better off the site.
 
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JoesphBrown said:
New post. Week in review check it out :)

Any moderators reading this I just wanna make sure it's cool that I am promoting my journal. I didn't read the policys when I signed up (Who does ;) )
I see other guys writing journals on here I just feel likes its more personal and I can customize it better off the site.
Good luck man. I'm going to check your stuff out and would encourage you to check mine. I started mine in October, 2014 and have obtained views from over 60 countries. Published an e-book on Amazon in March and have only gained steam

7 months and still going.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Good luck man. I'm going to check your stuff out and would encourage you to check mine. I started mine in October, 2014 and have obtained views from over 60 countries. Published an e-book on Amazon in March and have only gained steam

7 months and still going.
Thats sweet man I sent you a PM maybe we can bounce Ideas back and forth.

Also I have a new post. I'm still a bad writer and I feel like my writing is kind of awkward. I'm working on finding my style and I can feel it coming
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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