"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JoesphBrown

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Hey guys so Im starting to get serious about this self improvement so I though i'd start a blog to post about my progress.

http://newjoey.weebly.com/

Feel free to check it out in all honesty it sucks right now I'm just getting started and plan to figure it out as I go along (just like with women ;) )

Feel free to leave comments with any advice/feedback you have and ways I can improve my blog or my DJing skills.

-Joey Brown
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Keep it up and stay true to your goals. Every decision you make ask yourself if you'd be proud of it a year down the line. Good luck
 

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Chances are the blog posting will stop after a few posts, that what happens with most people.
 

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mangotot said:
Chances are the blog posting will stop after a few posts, that what happens with most people.
Very true and entirely possible. However Since I find myself keep quitting I feel if I put my progress in a public place I will be more motivated to

1) Actually keep up with it

2) Go out and push myself to have some cool stuff to write about

It may or may not work but I'm commiting to posting.
 

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Hey Joseph! Sweet. I'll check it out. You ever thought about just purchasing a domain or did you want to start out with weebly?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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New post. Week in review check it out :)

Any moderators reading this I just wanna make sure it's cool that I am promoting my journal. I didn't read the policys when I signed up (Who does ;) )
I see other guys writing journals on here I just feel likes its more personal and I can customize it better off the site.
 
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JoesphBrown said:
New post. Week in review check it out :)

Any moderators reading this I just wanna make sure it's cool that I am promoting my journal. I didn't read the policys when I signed up (Who does ;) )
I see other guys writing journals on here I just feel likes its more personal and I can customize it better off the site.
Good luck man. I'm going to check your stuff out and would encourage you to check mine. I started mine in October, 2014 and have obtained views from over 60 countries. Published an e-book on Amazon in March and have only gained steam

7 months and still going.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BlueAlpha1 said:
Good luck man. I'm going to check your stuff out and would encourage you to check mine. I started mine in October, 2014 and have obtained views from over 60 countries. Published an e-book on Amazon in March and have only gained steam

7 months and still going.
Thats sweet man I sent you a PM maybe we can bounce Ideas back and forth.

Also I have a new post. I'm still a bad writer and I feel like my writing is kind of awkward. I'm working on finding my style and I can feel it coming
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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