"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That's it????

That's your review???

Come on Dude! Make us want to take out a bank loan for the tickets, sodas & popcorn and go SEE this thing!
 

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it's a good movie. based on a true store about michael oher.

i'm not going t ruin the story, very good story about a guy that went through things you coudln't imagine and like wise was given an opprtounty that few are ever given and made the most of it.

very good movie. will win awards next year.
 

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Im usually not a fan of Sandra Bullock...her movies are usually a little too girly for me, but this one looks interesting. Its one that will gain her a new audience that usually wouldn't go see her movies. Sorta reminds me of when Chris Tucker and Jackie Chan did movies together.

I loved the preview, it looks really inspirational. I will go watch it later.
 

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WOW!! That movie was incredible! I never thought I would like Sandra Bullock so much. The Tuoy's are some amazing people.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I tried to tell everyone. I dont' ever come here touting movies.

it's a very very very good movie. you can see it alone, go with friends or even take a girl to see it becuase it has sandra in it.
 

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The story didn't exactly go down like the movie says it did. Let's just say that family was very interested in Ole Miss getting a 5 star stud offensive tackle.

Don't be fooled. I was fairly close to this situation and know the truth. Hollywood can do a number on the truth.
 

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speed dawg said:
The story didn't exactly go down like the movie says it did. Let's just say that family was very interested in Ole Miss getting a 5 star stud offensive tackle.

Don't be fooled. I was fairly close to this situation and know the truth. Hollywood can do a number on the truth.
he wasn't a 5 star stud.. but close

http://rivals.yahoo.com/ncaa/football/recruiting/player-Michael-Oher-27221

6.0 4 star is pretty fvcking high. top 100 player in country high.

with that said, the word is he wanted to go to LSU, but saban at the time could not tell him he would be there in the future, so he committed to ole miss.

i'm sure they were ole miss fans too.
 

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speed dawg said:
The story didn't exactly go down like the movie says it did. Let's just say that family was very interested in Ole Miss getting a 5 star stud offensive tackle.

Don't be fooled. I was fairly close to this situation and know the truth. Hollywood can do a number on the truth.
This film is blatant propoganda. The whole reason that family adopted him is because they were Ole Miss fans and saw a potential offensive lineman to add to the lineup. Had it been any other kid from the streets they wouldn't have lifted a finger.
 

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This film is blatant propoganda. The whole reason that family adopted him is because they were Ole Miss fans and saw a potential offensive lineman to add to the lineup. Had it been any other kid from the streets they wouldn't have lifted a finger.
Saw the movie for the 2nd time today. I know Hollywood likes to twist things around to make an interesting movie. I was thinking the same thing too. They address the issue in the movie when Michael is talking to the NCAA lady.

But why would they adopt him and do all these good things for him just so they can get him to go to the school they love? They didnt need to adopt him but they did.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ken785 said:
But why would they adopt him and do all these good things for him just so they can get him to go to the school they love? They didnt need to adopt him but they did.
Sean Tuohy was an Ole Miss grad (played hoops there), and "adopted" Oher (& later added him to his will) to ensure he went to Ole Miss. Tuohy is one of the best basketball players in Ole Miss history & wanted the "afflete" (who'd failed 2 grades & had a crackhead Momma) to play for the Rebels.

Oher also cheated on some of the famous "Mormon grade grab" online classes from BYU, and magically improved his high school GPA by 2 full points within a matter of weeks. It was a 0.6 early in high school.

FYI, there was a White HS football coach in Durham that took in a sumo from Richmond, VA (housed him and fed him for a couple years) and, of course, put him on his football team. The sumo's background was the typical story of a black single mammy with several kids that didn't really give a crap about motherhood.

I'm NOT cool at all with what the coach did (took resources away from his own family), but most of these stories have a "self-interest" aspect to it.
 

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Dust 2 Dust said:
Sean Tuohy was an Ole Miss grad (played hoops there), and "adopted" Oher (& later added him to his will) to ensure he went to Ole Miss. Tuohy is one of the best basketball players in Ole Miss history & wanted the "afflete" (who'd failed 2 grades & had a crackhead Momma) to play for the Rebels.

Oher also cheated on some of the famous "Mormon grade grab" online classes from BYU, and magically improved his high school GPA by 2 full points within a matter of weeks. It was a 0.6 early in high school.

FYI, there was a White HS football coach in Durham that took in a sumo from Richmond, VA (housed him and fed him for a couple years) and, of course, put him on his football team. The sumo's background was the typical story of a black single mammy with several kids that didn't really give a crap about motherhood.

I'm NOT cool at all with what the coach did (took resources away from his own family), but most of these stories have a "self-interest" aspect to it.
Whether it was for their own self interests or not, would you not agree that they gave these kids a chance to reach their potential and do positive things they would never have gotten a chance to do had they not been helped?

Michael Oher went on to the NFL with a 5-year 15 million dollar contract. He could be dead right now. I don't think he would have went so far if he really didn't want to play...
 

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Just saw the movie this afternoon and LOVED IT! (Thank you BackBreaker, for suggesting it!:up: )


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Whether it was for their own self interests or not, would you not agree that they gave these kids a chance to reach their potential and do positive things they would never have gotten a chance to do had they not been helped?
I agree. Even if it was a purely selfish reason, the fact remains that Michael got a chance that made his life better. He has a great career, money and is in the golden position TO HELP OTHER YOUNG MEN LIKE HIMSELF!

You think his life would have been better without the Touhys? Better staying in the slums with no education, no prospects and no hope?

If this is the result of "selfish behavior" then we should ALL be so selfish! If a child shows strong potential, then encourage it! Nurture it! We'll all be better for it!
 

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WaterTiger said:
Just saw the movie this afternoon and LOVED IT! (Thank you BackBreaker, for suggesting it!:up: )




I agree. Even if it was a purely selfish reason, the fact remains that Michael got a chance that made his life better. He has a great career, money and is in the golden position TO HELP OTHER YOUNG MEN LIKE HIMSELF!

You think his life would have been better without the Touhys? Better staying in the slums with no education, no prospects and no hope?

If this is the result of "selfish behavior" then we should ALL be so selfish! If a child shows strong potential, then encourage it! Nurture it! We'll all be better for it!
Actually, the word here is that he stayed with the family for 8 months, but he was already living with someone and enrolled in the same high school when they took him in. Doesn't make for such a good movie, does it? But it's not important to me since I'm not getting any money.
 

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Now we're getting somewhere.

Sean Touhy was and is a HUGE Ole Miss donor. They throw around money like crazy for football players. Old school mentality that got left in the 60's along with their alleged national titles. I mean, look at them now, the KKK is all over their campus.

If you want to go out and adopt black guys from the hood, go do it. If this guy hadn't been a Parade All-American, the Touhy's would have been nowhere to be found. And yeah, I'm sure Mrs. Touhy just strutted right into Orange Mound and said, "You threatened my son, you threaten me" to a bunch of Memphis gang bangers. They'd have jacked her ass up in some baaaaad ways and she'd have turned up on the First 48. I know, I lived in Memphis and the inner city is one of the most dangerous in the country.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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speed dawg said:
Now we're getting somewhere.

Sean Touhy was and is a HUGE Ole Miss donor. They throw around money like crazy for football players. Old school mentality that got left in the 60's along with their alleged national titles. I mean, look at them now, the KKK is all over their campus.

If you want to go out and adopt black guys from the hood, go do it. If this guy hadn't been a Parade All-American, the Touhy's would have been nowhere to be found. And yeah, I'm sure Mrs. Touhy just strutted right into Orange Mound and said, "You threatened my son, you threaten me" to a bunch of Memphis gang bangers. They'd have jacked her ass up in some baaaaad ways and she'd have turned up on the First 48. I know, I lived in Memphis and the inner city is one of the most dangerous in the country.

yeah I grew up in little rock, and out of all the places I've been.. France, london, australia... I have never and never will go to memphis. hell hole.

there are two cities on earth that I would rather cut my **** off than visit.. memphis and harrison arkansas.
 

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speed dawg said:
Now we're getting somewhere.

Sean Touhy was and is a HUGE Ole Miss donor. They throw around money like crazy for football players. Old school mentality that got left in the 60's along with their alleged national titles. I mean, look at them now, the KKK is all over their campus.

If you want to go out and adopt black guys from the hood, go do it. If this guy hadn't been a Parade All-American, the Touhy's would have been nowhere to be found. And yeah, I'm sure Mrs. Touhy just strutted right into Orange Mound and said, "You threatened my son, you threaten me" to a bunch of Memphis gang bangers. They'd have jacked her ass up in some baaaaad ways and she'd have turned up on the First 48. I know, I lived in Memphis and the inner city is one of the most dangerous in the country.

yeah I grew up in little rock, and out of all the places I've been.. France, london, australia... I have never and never will go to memphis. hell hole.

there are two cities on earth that I would rather cut my **** off than visit.. memphis and harrison arkansas.
 

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backbreaker said:
yeah I grew up in little rock, and out of all the places I've been.. France, london, australia... I have never and never will go to memphis. hell hole.

there are two cities on earth that I would rather cut my **** off than visit.. memphis and harrison arkansas.
I'd feel insulted if it came from someone who didn't come from Little Rock.....
 
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