“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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madhatter

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someone offered to set me up on a blind date. i had an absolutely awful time on my first and only blind date. basically i went with a group to a club and i couldn't shake off this girl o talk to other girls. really aggravating. plus she wasn't pretty at all, so i didn't want to be seen with her. :)

my female coworker says she's cute, but i have learned to only value judgments about attractiveness from guys who are talking about girls.

do you guys request a picture before you call up a girl to take her out?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I only accept blind dates from people who I'm absolutely know my taste, and there is only person who knows, that's my brother. He and I have the same taste so we always know whether or not we'll be into a girl when setting each other up.

In the past I accepted blind dates set up by my best female friend. The girl she introd me to were always nice, and kinda cute, (7's), but the never really did it for me. My friend would always be like, "Ohhhh I know this really cute girl that you'll love!". Eh, it was always dissapointing. So yeah, pictures I now insist on.
 

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Discussion.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Soma
...In the past I accepted blind dates set up by my best female friend. The girl she introd me to were always nice, and kinda cute, (7's), but the never really did it for me. My friend would always be like, "Ohhhh I know this really cute girl that you'll love!". Eh, it was always dissapointing. So yeah, pictures I now insist on.
This is what happens most of the time, at least with people that really don't know your particular taste. They think that the two of you would hit it off only for one reason: YOU'RE BOTH SINGLE, and nothing else. That sucks big time...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Just say no to blind dates.
 

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oh shiite i have a blind date this weekend and my friend (girl) who hooked it up says she's scute. she sounded cute on the phone but we'll see this weekend; hope mine doesn't turn out like yours...sorry to hear you night sucked.
 

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she sounded cute on the phone but we'll see this weekend
Yeah ^ Great way to tell. Just be sure to listen for that hourglass shaped figure as you talk to her. :p
 

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Blind dates are fun. Its like gambling.
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
Blind dates are fun. Its like gambling.
Oh yeah? Tell that to the hunchback Hell-Beast that I got set up with, Mister It's-Fun-It's-Like-Gambling.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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madhatter

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the one i was set up with has a smoking hot sister. i figured she would at least look as hot as her sister. not a chance!!
 

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I'm with casanova, blind dates are a big negative.
 
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