I have been set up on a blind date I emailed the girl, and she is good looking we are gonna get to gether soon but untill then I have tryed to be mysterious and not give too much info. any help on how not to screw up would b nice. Thanks
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Blind date.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
idiot_boyfriend
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Start off by changing your mentality from "not screwing up" to "having a lot of fun."
Listen to her. Seriously, this is really overlooked.... like if she ends up saying, "I already said....", you just fùcked up. Just hear what she says, and you'll be able to follow-up quite well.
Eye contact is important. Besides that, just enjoy spending time with a girl you hope to learn more about.
Listen to her. Seriously, this is really overlooked.... like if she ends up saying, "I already said....", you just fùcked up. Just hear what she says, and you'll be able to follow-up quite well.
Eye contact is important. Besides that, just enjoy spending time with a girl you hope to learn more about.
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Would you have sex with a zebra? No, then shut the hell up monkeyboy.