I have been set up on a blind date I emailed the girl, and she is good looking we are gonna get to gether soon but untill then I have tryed to be mysterious and not give too much info. any help on how not to screw up would b nice. Thanks
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Blind date.
- Thread starter zx2not4u
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
Start off by changing your mentality from "not screwing up" to "having a lot of fun."
Listen to her. Seriously, this is really overlooked.... like if she ends up saying, "I already said....", you just fùcked up. Just hear what she says, and you'll be able to follow-up quite well.
Eye contact is important. Besides that, just enjoy spending time with a girl you hope to learn more about.
Listen to her. Seriously, this is really overlooked.... like if she ends up saying, "I already said....", you just fùcked up. Just hear what she says, and you'll be able to follow-up quite well.
Eye contact is important. Besides that, just enjoy spending time with a girl you hope to learn more about.
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Would you have sex with a zebra? No, then shut the hell up monkeyboy.