I have been set up on a blind date I emailed the girl, and she is good looking we are gonna get to gether soon but untill then I have tryed to be mysterious and not give too much info. any help on how not to screw up would b nice. Thanks
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Blind date.
- Thread starter zx2not4u
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
Start off by changing your mentality from "not screwing up" to "having a lot of fun."
Listen to her. Seriously, this is really overlooked.... like if she ends up saying, "I already said....", you just fùcked up. Just hear what she says, and you'll be able to follow-up quite well.
Eye contact is important. Besides that, just enjoy spending time with a girl you hope to learn more about.
Listen to her. Seriously, this is really overlooked.... like if she ends up saying, "I already said....", you just fùcked up. Just hear what she says, and you'll be able to follow-up quite well.
Eye contact is important. Besides that, just enjoy spending time with a girl you hope to learn more about.
FatBastard
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Would you have sex with a zebra? No, then shut the hell up monkeyboy.