"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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blazing sizing help anyone?

warrior1

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i bought a blazer online from Banana Republic, a 40R that is too big for me and now i have to sell it back b/c i ripped the tags off. I am 5'8 and 155lbs and would like to know based on my height and weight, what is the right size for me. I know i can easily do this by going to a store and do this but i don't have time this week.

Is 38R, 38S or maybe 40S the right size for me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MindOverMatter

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what's your waist size?

normally, suits and blazers tend to have a 6 inch drop in sizing. for example, if you are 40R in the chest, that means you are most likely 34 in the waist. now, there are exceptions to this for example. if you work out a lot and have an overdeveloped torso but a small waist, you could easily be a 10, or 12 inch drop. also, some people who are really fat tend to have a 3 inch drop between chest and waist.

bottom line is, if you are not a bodybuilder, and are not a fat ass, your jacket size is 6 inches higher then your waist size.

however, based on your height, im not sure if you are a short or a regular cut since i don't know your arm outseam. when you buy dress shirts, do you normally buy the ones with a 32-33 outseam, or the ones with a 34-35 outseam? if it's 32-33, go for the short fitting jacket. if you are 34-35 go for the regular. if you don't know what your arm length is, go for the regular and get the sleeves shortened if need be.

if i were you, i'd go to the nearest men's warehouse sometime in the future (or moores if you live in canada), and get all your measurements taken by a suit specialist, and keep the card in your wallet (rather then ordering random sizes).
 

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hi thx a lot. My waist size is 32. Dress shirts i wear a medium, 15.5 Not sure if they are 32-33 or 34-35 outseem. Some poster in another forum tells me Regular or R like 40R is for people 5-7 to 6-0, so i should stick to regular and not small. I never heard of the 6 in drop in size but it does sound real accurate.

I am not fat, probably more on the skinny to the regular size.
 

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At Banana you probably wear a 38S. I was a suiting specialist at BR for awhile and the sizing is all wonky - I'm not a 38 anywhere else but there. I'm 6' and 160 lbs and wear a 38R.

If you're set on BR you should go into a shop and check them out. Make sure you find the best dressed guy in the store to help you - in my experience they're the ones who know how a jacket should fit. Very few women know anything about men's clothes.

MoM, in general you might be right about the 6" drop, but mine is 7-9" and I'm nowhere near a bodybuilder. Most of the skinnier guys I fitted were more of a 7-8" drop.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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