Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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blazing sizing help anyone?

warrior1

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i bought a blazer online from Banana Republic, a 40R that is too big for me and now i have to sell it back b/c i ripped the tags off. I am 5'8 and 155lbs and would like to know based on my height and weight, what is the right size for me. I know i can easily do this by going to a store and do this but i don't have time this week.

Is 38R, 38S or maybe 40S the right size for me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what's your waist size?

normally, suits and blazers tend to have a 6 inch drop in sizing. for example, if you are 40R in the chest, that means you are most likely 34 in the waist. now, there are exceptions to this for example. if you work out a lot and have an overdeveloped torso but a small waist, you could easily be a 10, or 12 inch drop. also, some people who are really fat tend to have a 3 inch drop between chest and waist.

bottom line is, if you are not a bodybuilder, and are not a fat ass, your jacket size is 6 inches higher then your waist size.

however, based on your height, im not sure if you are a short or a regular cut since i don't know your arm outseam. when you buy dress shirts, do you normally buy the ones with a 32-33 outseam, or the ones with a 34-35 outseam? if it's 32-33, go for the short fitting jacket. if you are 34-35 go for the regular. if you don't know what your arm length is, go for the regular and get the sleeves shortened if need be.

if i were you, i'd go to the nearest men's warehouse sometime in the future (or moores if you live in canada), and get all your measurements taken by a suit specialist, and keep the card in your wallet (rather then ordering random sizes).
 

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hi thx a lot. My waist size is 32. Dress shirts i wear a medium, 15.5 Not sure if they are 32-33 or 34-35 outseem. Some poster in another forum tells me Regular or R like 40R is for people 5-7 to 6-0, so i should stick to regular and not small. I never heard of the 6 in drop in size but it does sound real accurate.

I am not fat, probably more on the skinny to the regular size.
 

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At Banana you probably wear a 38S. I was a suiting specialist at BR for awhile and the sizing is all wonky - I'm not a 38 anywhere else but there. I'm 6' and 160 lbs and wear a 38R.

If you're set on BR you should go into a shop and check them out. Make sure you find the best dressed guy in the store to help you - in my experience they're the ones who know how a jacket should fit. Very few women know anything about men's clothes.

MoM, in general you might be right about the 6" drop, but mine is 7-9" and I'm nowhere near a bodybuilder. Most of the skinnier guys I fitted were more of a 7-8" drop.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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