When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Whenever you have a pimple or other stuff on face or other places, put some brilliant green on, once is enough. Sure it will show green, but only for couple of days and then there will be no pimple of scar. It's just way too effective.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What the heck is brilliant green?
Google it, it is a bad ass antiseptic.
Women view over 80% of men as BELOW average looking
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That strong jawline gang, I also appreciate the lower third the most, I think this is a defensive mechanism. You're probably an attractive man with low self esteem as am I at times.
I'm well aware of the 80% statistic, I just see it as something to adapt to
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Oh here's our white supremacist, feeling angry with me huh..
I recently saw five attractive young women out and about. I was looking at them and thinking each one of them were appealing in their own individual way, but they all fit the bill as attractive females. Any one of them would have met the beauty standard for most men, most men would have been glad to spend time with any one of them (personality notwithstanding). Then I thought about the 80% thing. So if those ladies were men, a woman looking at them would have only found one of them attractive, if that statistic is true.