"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Black Messenger Bags

warrior1

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I want to know what is a good black leather messenger bag to get? I want something where i can put my stuff in it while I am out. I am 22 and still in college so I need a bag to carry my stuff. I do not work but go to school

I don't want to spend a lot of cash on it. I saw a messenger bag on ebay and it says its a messenger bag/ laptop bag. Are those fine?

It looks like this

http://cgi.ebay.com/NEW-Mens-Leathe...photoQQcmdZViewItemQQ_trksidZp1742.m153.l1262
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oakraiderz2

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What kind of stuff? Dont you have a backpack? I had a roomate who had a messenger bag and carried around a maraca and other gay sh*t. He totally looked like a f@ggle.
 

Desert Fox

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warrior1 said:
I dont think carrying a backpack is stylish man.
well unless you want to look like a metro aka F@GGOT then I suggest you forget about style and get a backpack.

i wear a backpack. girls dont' say "ewww backpack" dude wtf is wrng with you. I bought a messenger pack before for travel and it was huge but I do not use it for school man. you will look like a turd.

esp that leather stuff man. it's pretty much a goddam man purse
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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If you're in school a backpack is acceptable.

I hear you though. I like to dress nice but a backpack does kind of kill certain styles.

Most guys who carry messenger bags are definately trying too hard and there is usually a high douche factor.
 

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Ken785

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I dont see anything wrong with it. It looks just like a laptop bag. Plus if its cool enough for Vin Diesel, its cool enough for me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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