"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Black Messenger Bags

warrior1

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I want to know what is a good black leather messenger bag to get? I want something where i can put my stuff in it while I am out. I am 22 and still in college so I need a bag to carry my stuff. I do not work but go to school

I don't want to spend a lot of cash on it. I saw a messenger bag on ebay and it says its a messenger bag/ laptop bag. Are those fine?

It looks like this

http://cgi.ebay.com/NEW-Mens-Leathe...photoQQcmdZViewItemQQ_trksidZp1742.m153.l1262
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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What kind of stuff? Dont you have a backpack? I had a roomate who had a messenger bag and carried around a maraca and other gay sh*t. He totally looked like a f@ggle.
 

Desert Fox

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warrior1 said:
I dont think carrying a backpack is stylish man.
well unless you want to look like a metro aka F@GGOT then I suggest you forget about style and get a backpack.

i wear a backpack. girls dont' say "ewww backpack" dude wtf is wrng with you. I bought a messenger pack before for travel and it was huge but I do not use it for school man. you will look like a turd.

esp that leather stuff man. it's pretty much a goddam man purse
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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If you're in school a backpack is acceptable.

I hear you though. I like to dress nice but a backpack does kind of kill certain styles.

Most guys who carry messenger bags are definately trying too hard and there is usually a high douche factor.
 

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Ken785

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I dont see anything wrong with it. It looks just like a laptop bag. Plus if its cool enough for Vin Diesel, its cool enough for me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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