"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Black Messenger Bags

warrior1

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I want to know what is a good black leather messenger bag to get? I want something where i can put my stuff in it while I am out. I am 22 and still in college so I need a bag to carry my stuff. I do not work but go to school

I don't want to spend a lot of cash on it. I saw a messenger bag on ebay and it says its a messenger bag/ laptop bag. Are those fine?

It looks like this

http://cgi.ebay.com/NEW-Mens-Leathe...photoQQcmdZViewItemQQ_trksidZp1742.m153.l1262
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oakraiderz2

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What kind of stuff? Dont you have a backpack? I had a roomate who had a messenger bag and carried around a maraca and other gay sh*t. He totally looked like a f@ggle.
 

Desert Fox

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warrior1 said:
I dont think carrying a backpack is stylish man.
well unless you want to look like a metro aka F@GGOT then I suggest you forget about style and get a backpack.

i wear a backpack. girls dont' say "ewww backpack" dude wtf is wrng with you. I bought a messenger pack before for travel and it was huge but I do not use it for school man. you will look like a turd.

esp that leather stuff man. it's pretty much a goddam man purse
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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If you're in school a backpack is acceptable.

I hear you though. I like to dress nice but a backpack does kind of kill certain styles.

Most guys who carry messenger bags are definately trying too hard and there is usually a high douche factor.
 

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Ken785

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I dont see anything wrong with it. It looks just like a laptop bag. Plus if its cool enough for Vin Diesel, its cool enough for me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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