"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by christz
HAH i knew those pics were out there somewhere.. all his pics of toya are out there somewhere

of course i'm lieing though and don't know what i'm talking about according to deejay and sloopy

let this be the final nail in the damn coffin
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Oh my god!

Just get over it!

We never called you a liar - and you're losing credibility everytime you make a post. Try actually reading what we write next time. You might learn something.

~Sloopy
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Sloopy
Oh my god!

Just get over it!

We never called you a liar - and you're losing credibility everytime you make a post. Try actually reading what we write next time. You might learn something.

~Sloopy
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no sloopy, your giveing resonable doubt to my claims stateing that they could be real or they may not.. you are trying to sway the proof and point it away from what's real.

in turn you are trying to label me as a person who is blindly throwing out accusations. which means you don't belive me which means your calling me a liar.. my credibility in this matter will never go down the drain.. because its so ungodly apparent that B-I used those pics! jesus man
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I feel like this is the arguement against bush with WMD's

or the one against Bonds and steriods...

no matter how much proof you show...they wont believe.

I could kill 10 people right now and if its not on camera then i didnt do it!

then they would say it was digitally enhanced or soemthing
 
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Originally posted by christz
no sloopy, your giveing resonable doubt to my claims stateing that they could be real or they may not.. you are trying to sway the proof and point it away from what's real.

in turn you are trying to label me as a person who is blindly throwing out accusations. which means you don't belive me which means your calling me a liar.. my credibility in this matter will never go down the drain.. because its so ungodly apparent that B-I used those pics! jesus man
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Hahahaha. I love the connections you made. Are you a girl, by any chance? Because your logic is completely flawed.

How do you get "me calling you a liar" from "think before you speak?"

And you're right, he DID use those pics. He is PROBABLY a big fraud. And what am I saying? I'm saying YOU are a big A**HOLE for handling the situation the way you did.

So I am not calling you a liar. But I AM calling you an immature jerkoff with no regard for problem-solving etiquette.

~Sloopy
 
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Originally posted by Sloopy
Dude - don't be an idiot.

~Sloopy
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Hey, that sounds like something Black Italian would say!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't get why people are defending him. I'm sure he's capable of doing that himself (like a man) and IF he has a reasonable explanation, he'll have no problem.

It's like in everyday society though: big mouthed and arrogant people are usually full of sh1t. It's usually a front to hide their incompetence and they always end up hanging themselves.
 
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Originally posted by Jariel
I don't get why people are defending him. I'm sure he's capable of doing that himself (like a man) and IF he has a reasonable explanation, he'll have no problem. He's probably thinking up some explanation at this minute.

It's like in everyday society though: big mouthed and arrogant people are usually full of sh1t. It's usually a front to hide their incompetence and they always end up hanging themselves.
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Pretty much -

~Sloopy
 
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Hey, that sounds like something Black Italian would say!
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Hmm, you know...that sounds really familiar. Who was that other guy who condemned people who didn't agree with his ideas...? Oh yeah! Hitler!

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Girl i met clubbing and i ended up fu*king outside the club. My friend took a picture. She was a HB7

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a394/GTASAglitch/IMG_1316.jpg


Check this out. If you save it and get a zoom you can see that this is NOT the same guy as in the other pics. I'm not pointing any fingers, I'm just supplying the/a facts.
 
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Originally posted by Sloopy
Hmm, you know...that sounds really familiar. Who was that other guy who condemned people who didn't agree with his ideas...? Oh yeah! Hitler!
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I love it when you say that:rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hey hey hey!!

what mess this has caused, settle down yall!

Toya is supposed to be at this forum now i hear, k00l :D

It wud be great to see what she says and what black italian has gotta say about this.:rolleyes:

TOYA: i want you as my future ex-wife! PM me your email address :D
 
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I always thought that there was something wrong with this Black Italian, and It seems I was right. For almost a month, if I am not mistaken, he has been the center of attention at sosuave.net, be it positively or negatively.

Do not brag guys, you just seem to be incecure and seeking approval by doing it.

Anyway, don't give much credit to people on the net and you will be fine.

Life goes on.
 
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Originally posted by bluelemond
Girl i met clubbing and i ended up fu*king outside the club. My friend took a picture. She was a HB7

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a394/GTASAglitch/IMG_1316.jpg


Check this out. If you save it and get a zoom you can see that this is NOT the same guy as in the other pics. I'm not pointing any fingers, I'm just supplying the/a facts.
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mmmm no you can't.
 
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he is like the guy who is the bully and everyone lines up to be his bytch....

so many AFC's would be like OH MY GOD BI! ur so cool, ur so right. I dont believe in love either!

while others of us knew he was a liar on a lot of levels!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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