"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Black-Italain AKA Ninja, Called out by ME

Status
Not open for further replies.

DonJuanMonk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 20, 2005
Messages
826
Reaction score
0
Location
CA
Originally posted by Sloopy
Once again - ridiculous.

First of all, Christz, it was incredibly insensitive and rude of you to call out Black_Italian on a public forum. I am not defending what he may or may not have done, but it doesn't change the fact that you have completely ruined the reputation of somebody who was just a little idiotic.

~Sloopy
Men have reputation. Boys don't deserve any.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

christz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2004
Messages
740
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by Sloopy
Once again - ridiculous.

First of all, Christz, it was incredibly insensitive and rude of you to call out Black_Italian on a public forum. I am not defending what he may or may not have done, but it doesn't change the fact that you have completely ruined the reputation of somebody who was just a little idiotic.

Sure, maybe he didn't deserve his reputation. But wouldn't it have been better to solve the problem in a non-hostile way - perhaps by PMing him and giving him a chance to confess on his own? At least then he may have been able to maintain some credibility.

Besides that, say there's a chance he IS telling the truth (I know you think anyone who questions what you is a 'moron' but these things DO happen). Even if he manages to explain himself, almost everybody on the forum will have doubts regarding his credibility.

You should think before you act, Christz. And now you are going to go out and cause a whole lot of unnecessary drama in the name of your holy Toya. It just doesn't matter. It's a waste of everybody's energy. Get out of high school.


~Sloopy
go out? you and the other 2 guys here.. are the ones makeing me force feed you the proof! all i wanted to do is right a wrong and clear up a lie.. and then came the people giveing resonable doubt there is no doubt.. what energy? dude i'm not exerting any energy here.. i'm pointing and then saying your a liar.

They live more than 4000 miles apart clear on the other side of the WORLD. she has always lived in Montreal canada. my holy toya? dude this is a person who is being slapped onto the forum and labled as another mans e/x girl!! that in itself is disgusting and disturbing!
 

zzirf25

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2005
Messages
61
Reaction score
29
How long has this post been up, because I'm surprised that we haven't heard from Black Italian yet. Did the post just recently go up or has it been up for a while at this point?
 

DonJuanMonk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 20, 2005
Messages
826
Reaction score
0
Location
CA
Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
hhaha oh god hear it comes. Whatever I'm not the one who posted this. And no i'm not Black Italian ask the mods to check IP. Think what you like consedering how easy your swayed to change views. This is not my problem however I just Keep it Real by saying what i think when i read other brothers claiming other brothers lairs with little evidence. And its sad to see people not giving second thoughts or hearing what Black Italian has to say. Times have changed,....whatever
"Keeping it real" to me is being the person you say you are.

If you think keeping it real is like cheering for Prez Bush even though you know he's a damn liar, then you're in that crowd.
 

spider_007

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 23, 2005
Messages
3,072
Reaction score
16
Location
ontario
Originally posted by h2o
so you're saying when I see a picture of president bush in the paper today, I can't be sure it's him, because it's not the same exact picture of him I saw on Yahoo news?
Presdent Bush is a public figure, you see him on the news at least once a week. you see the way he walks, talks and moves his arms. You've seen dosens of his face expresions..... I have been mistaken quiet a few times for some other guy buy total strangers. One even wanted to take a picture with his cell-that's haw freaked out his was.... Millions of chicks all over the world, are you really that sure it's her??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Sloopy

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2005
Messages
130
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Originally posted by christz
go out? you and the other 2 guys here.. are the ones makeing me force feed you the proof! all i wanted to do is right a wrong and clear up a lie.. and then came the people giveing resonable doubt there is no doubt.. what energy? dude i'm not exerting any energy here.. i'm pointing and then saying your a liar.

They live more than 4000 miles apart clear on the other side of the WORLD. she has always lived in Montreal canada. my holy toya? dude this is a person who is being slapped onto the forum and labled as another mans e/x girl!! that in itself is disgusting and disturbing!
I don't need any proof. Because I don't CARE. It doesn't matter. If he lied, he lied. If he didn't, he didn't. So don't bother trying to prove anything to me. I think this whole thing is totally moronic.

Period.

I am more concerned about the way you chose to handle it. He may be a douchebag but he's still a person and he still deserves the benefit of the doubt until you know exactly what happened, rather than you spouting off before you'd even spoken to him.

On the other side of the coin, this can be seen as a learning experience - even if he meant nothing by it (maybe he wanted to pad his conquests with this extra hot girl he happened to have pictures of on his computer), he knows that stupid shyt like that can easily blow up in your face.

As for his advice - game or no game, I don't think I ever really saw him give bad advice. So I'm not too concerned about Black_Italian leading the "innocents" off of a cliff or anything.


~Sloopy
 

italostud

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2003
Messages
804
Reaction score
7
Age
45
Seems like all of these guys defending him have just recently registered. Hmmm, seems like someone is just having fun baiting you guys by using multiple accounts.
 

frivolousz21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2004
Messages
3,151
Reaction score
16
Age
44
Location
belleville, il
If you think keeping it real is like cheering for Prez Bush even though you know he's a damn liar, then you're in that crowd.

AINT THAT THE DAMN TRUTH!
 

spider_007

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 23, 2005
Messages
3,072
Reaction score
16
Location
ontario
Originally posted by christz
spider look at this pic

http://img0405.camdiscover.com/002/387/1068705222.jpg

then look at this pic

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a394/GTASAglitch/wsqdwq.jpg

any guy with HALF A BRAIN would see that is the SAME room.. look at the double doors.. the design on the door do you know what the chances of that are? look at the layout of the room!

1/100000000 chances

now shut up.. your makeing me do to much work to proove you and other non belivers (all 2 of you) wrong
there you go, haw hard was that.

I apoligize, I was wrong, It does look like a same room.......I'd still love to see what the "Black Italian" is gona say when he sees it.
 

OneArmDeeJay

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 18, 2005
Messages
378
Reaction score
0
Location
Arkham
Hahhaha aww man.

Is it not possible that she could be lying to YOU about who she really is via name and address? You do.

Is it not possible that any of those two moved away?

Is it not possible that Black Italian didn’t have any pictures of her except the ones that she posted on her website.

Is it not possible that those where the only pictures that he has and doesn’t have any with him in it? I do with my ex.

I’m sorry you claiming to be her web blooger whatever buddy long time ago, just doesn’t cut it as to say that you really know this person.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

christz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2004
Messages
740
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by spider_007
there you go, haw hard was that.

I apoligize, I was wrong, It does look like a same room.......I'd still love to see what the "Black Italian" is gona say when he sees it.
well as long as you see the validity of my post and the proof all over this thread and now i've even posted a direct comparasin to the rooms she took those pictures.. in there's a few more i could compare but that is the best pic as the door never changes design and the room never changes layout no matter how old the pics are
 

DrMetallica

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 11, 2003
Messages
914
Reaction score
0
Location
EU
I don't think the two girls are a match. They look similar, yes, but I doubt they're the same.
 

Sloopy

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2005
Messages
130
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Originally posted by DrMetallica
I don't think the two girls are a match. They look similar, yes, but I doubt they're the same.
They are the same. The room is identical, right down to the jacket hanging in the nook and the rug in front of the closet.

~Sloopy
 

AndyW

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2005
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
unless you find a same picture on her site that matches the picture he posted you can't prove it's her.....
Link B_I posted.

Link from her webcam archive.

you wanna match up a pic on her website to the one he posted...look at the rug to the left of the pic.

Either its the same girl, or they shop at the same rug store!

B_I give us all a good laugh and tell us she has a twin sister who lives in Montreal LOL

Haha Sloopy you just got there first with the rug...
 

christz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2004
Messages
740
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
Hahhaha aww man.

Is it not possible that she could be lying to YOU about who she really is via name and address? You do.

Is it not possible that any of those two moved away?

Is it not possible that Black Italian didn’t have any pictures of her except the ones that she posted on her website.

Is it not possible that those where the only pictures that he has and doesn’t have any with him in it? I do with my ex.

I’m sorry you claiming to be her web blooger whatever buddy long time ago, just doesn’t cut it as to say that you really know this person.
your a one man army now Deejay. just silence your senseless jabbering and look at the comparsin pics i've posted but regaurdless of all that..

STOP DODGEING MY proposal!! have Toya and black-italian get together and take a picture its that simple.. now isn't? its clear he has no quams about posting up her pictures and its clear he has the ability to do so.. so lets hear the excuses!

lets hear how his webcam is broken or how he lost his digi cam. or how it needs batteries or how she went on vacation. etc etc..

don't deny what you already know less you actually are B-I then in that case no wonder your putting up such a fight.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

silenthill

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2005
Messages
123
Reaction score
1
Black Italian is such a fake. He probably thinks he's the chicken sh*t too.
 

christz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2004
Messages
740
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by DrMetallica
I don't think the two girls are a match. They look similar, yes, but I doubt they're the same.
from the rug that is the same to the double doors to the paint in the room to the very design of the actual room and layout nothing changes from pic to pic.. neither does the girl

do you realize this is the kind of proof that puts guys in jail for life? and how rare is it to have the bathroom right next to the door leading out of the room?
 

Broham

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 18, 2004
Messages
230
Reaction score
2
Location
Red Sox Nation
WHY BLACK ITALIAN?? WHY??? YOU'VE RUINED THE HOPES AND DREAMS OF YOUNG BLACK AND ITALIAN NINJAS EVERYWHERE!!!! WHO WILL BE THEIR MENTOR NOW, PRINCE???
 

OneArmDeeJay

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 18, 2005
Messages
378
Reaction score
0
Location
Arkham
Originally posted by christz
your a one man army now Deejay. just silence your senseless jabbering and look at the comparsin pics i've posted but regaurdless of all that..

STOP DODGEING MY proposal!! have Toya and black-italian get together and take a picture its that simple.. now isn't? its clear he has no quams about posting up her pictures and its clear he has the ability to do so.. so lets hear the excuses!

lets hear how his webcam is broken or how he lost his digi cam. or how it needs batteries or how she went on vacation. etc etc..

don't deny what you already know less you actually are B-I then in that case no wonder your putting up such a fight.
What proposal?? I didn't claim that this girl is my ex. Agian I'm just calling it how I see it. Your beef is with B-I not me. Besides if anyones dodgeing anything is the quesitons I ask you my friend. I'm not trying to start anything with you are anybody else just the claims. You could be dead right.
 

zzirf25

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2005
Messages
61
Reaction score
29
I was browsing through her site and I came across something interesting. I found a picture of a guy who looks like Black Italian assuming he was the guy in the pictures that he posted, check it out

http://www.facebattle.com/Profile.aspx?UserID=oldskool

I'm not saying that this is him but the resemblence is there. Just thought I would throw this in the mix.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Status
Not open for further replies.
Top