"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Black-Italain AKA Ninja, Called out by ME
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
no sloopy, your giveing resonable doubt to my claims stateing that they could be real or they may not.. you are trying to sway the proof and point it away from what's real.
in turn you are trying to label me as a person who is blindly throwing out accusations. which means you don't belive me which means your calling me a liar.. my credibility in this matter will never go down the drain.. because its so ungodly apparent that B-I used those pics! jesus man
Valdez
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B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Hey, let the quote speak for itself.Originally posted by christz
i got it all wrong..
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
or the one against Bonds and steriods...
no matter how much proof you show...they wont believe.
I could kill 10 people right now and if its not on camera then i didnt do it!
then they would say it was digitally enhanced or soemthing
Hahahaha. I love the connections you made. Are you a girl, by any chance? Because your logic is completely flawed.
How do you get "me calling you a liar" from "think before you speak?"
And you're right, he DID use those pics. He is PROBABLY a big fraud. And what am I saying? I'm saying YOU are a big A**HOLE for handling the situation the way you did.
So I am not calling you a liar. But I AM calling you an immature jerkoff with no regard for problem-solving etiquette.
~Sloopy
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
that guy is ussually here all day
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
It's like in everyday society though: big mouthed and arrogant people are usually full of sh1t. It's usually a front to hide their incompetence and they always end up hanging themselves.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a394/GTASAglitch/IMG_1316.jpg
Check this out. If you save it and get a zoom you can see that this is NOT the same guy as in the other pics. I'm not pointing any fingers, I'm just supplying the/a facts.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
I love it when you say that
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
what mess this has caused, settle down yall!
Toya is supposed to be at this forum now i hear, k00l
It wud be great to see what she says and what black italian has gotta say about this.
TOYA: i want you as my future ex-wife! PM me your email address
Blue Phoenix
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Do not brag guys, you just seem to be incecure and seeking approval by doing it.
Anyway, don't give much credit to people on the net and you will be fine.
Life goes on.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
mmmm no you can't.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
so many AFC's would be like OH MY GOD BI! ur so cool, ur so right. I dont believe in love either!
while others of us knew he was a liar on a lot of levels!
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
The fricken guy is WHITE. Black_Italian is tan/dark. Plus the hair is different.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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