"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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black guys vs white guys vs asian vs mexican

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WHO GIVES A FLYING FVCK!!

WHY ARE ALL THESE THREADS POPPING UP WITH POINTLESS ARGUMENTS!!!


Why would you wanna date someone who doesn't like you becaus of your race? And anybody who is trying to figure how many are sleeping with this or that.... why do you care?


It seems to me these thread are pointless and only divide people on this forum instead of producing results.

Anybody agree?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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saber, i agree with you, and if you go reread my last posts in my thread i state something like:

Women find certain tratis in certain races more attractive than in other races. I honestly belive this.

And if we could identify those tratis, we can learn from eachother, and that is the point of this whole forum, to learn from eachother.

But certain individuals make these threads a fight insteead of a learning experience.

I am open to learn from white men, as i do feel white men have certain tratis women prefer, and i also feel black men have certain tratis women prefer, and i am willing to discuss and offer those on a rational level, but most just want to drag these threads into the mud
 

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agree that some traits are prefered but how can you change the way you look?

Otherwise it's all just personality.

can you give an example?
 

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I am not talking looks here, i am talking personality.

if you would like to talk about this via email or private message, i think that would be better, as it is inevitable that this topic will get flamed by people who dont accept our points of view
 

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i read your thread and i think you hit the nail on the head as to why the issue comes up all the time.
I think a guys insecurities lead them to make excuses like girls like rich, tall, black, white ect ect guys because they examine the facts that reinforce their limiting beliefs.

sure pm me on some of your thoughts and we can chat
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ShortyMac said:
I am not talking looks here, i am talking personality.

if you would like to talk about this via email or private message, i think that would be better, as it is inevitable that this topic will get flamed by people who dont accept our points of view
YEAH!!! Topics like personality have no place in this forum!!! :woo:
 
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