Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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black guys vs white guys vs asian vs mexican

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WHO GIVES A FLYING FVCK!!

WHY ARE ALL THESE THREADS POPPING UP WITH POINTLESS ARGUMENTS!!!


Why would you wanna date someone who doesn't like you becaus of your race? And anybody who is trying to figure how many are sleeping with this or that.... why do you care?


It seems to me these thread are pointless and only divide people on this forum instead of producing results.

Anybody agree?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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saber, i agree with you, and if you go reread my last posts in my thread i state something like:

Women find certain tratis in certain races more attractive than in other races. I honestly belive this.

And if we could identify those tratis, we can learn from eachother, and that is the point of this whole forum, to learn from eachother.

But certain individuals make these threads a fight insteead of a learning experience.

I am open to learn from white men, as i do feel white men have certain tratis women prefer, and i also feel black men have certain tratis women prefer, and i am willing to discuss and offer those on a rational level, but most just want to drag these threads into the mud
 
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agree that some traits are prefered but how can you change the way you look?

Otherwise it's all just personality.

can you give an example?
 
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I am not talking looks here, i am talking personality.

if you would like to talk about this via email or private message, i think that would be better, as it is inevitable that this topic will get flamed by people who dont accept our points of view
 
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i read your thread and i think you hit the nail on the head as to why the issue comes up all the time.
I think a guys insecurities lead them to make excuses like girls like rich, tall, black, white ect ect guys because they examine the facts that reinforce their limiting beliefs.

sure pm me on some of your thoughts and we can chat
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ShortyMac said:
I am not talking looks here, i am talking personality.

if you would like to talk about this via email or private message, i think that would be better, as it is inevitable that this topic will get flamed by people who dont accept our points of view
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YEAH!!! Topics like personality have no place in this forum!!! :woo:
 
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