"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WHO GIVES A FLYING FVCK!!

WHY ARE ALL THESE THREADS POPPING UP WITH POINTLESS ARGUMENTS!!!


Why would you wanna date someone who doesn't like you becaus of your race? And anybody who is trying to figure how many are sleeping with this or that.... why do you care?


It seems to me these thread are pointless and only divide people on this forum instead of producing results.

Anybody agree?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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saber, i agree with you, and if you go reread my last posts in my thread i state something like:

Women find certain tratis in certain races more attractive than in other races. I honestly belive this.

And if we could identify those tratis, we can learn from eachother, and that is the point of this whole forum, to learn from eachother.

But certain individuals make these threads a fight insteead of a learning experience.

I am open to learn from white men, as i do feel white men have certain tratis women prefer, and i also feel black men have certain tratis women prefer, and i am willing to discuss and offer those on a rational level, but most just want to drag these threads into the mud
 

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agree that some traits are prefered but how can you change the way you look?

Otherwise it's all just personality.

can you give an example?
 

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I am not talking looks here, i am talking personality.

if you would like to talk about this via email or private message, i think that would be better, as it is inevitable that this topic will get flamed by people who dont accept our points of view
 

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i read your thread and i think you hit the nail on the head as to why the issue comes up all the time.
I think a guys insecurities lead them to make excuses like girls like rich, tall, black, white ect ect guys because they examine the facts that reinforce their limiting beliefs.

sure pm me on some of your thoughts and we can chat
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ShortyMac said:
I am not talking looks here, i am talking personality.

if you would like to talk about this via email or private message, i think that would be better, as it is inevitable that this topic will get flamed by people who dont accept our points of view
YEAH!!! Topics like personality have no place in this forum!!! :woo:
 
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