"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WHO GIVES A FLYING FVCK!!

WHY ARE ALL THESE THREADS POPPING UP WITH POINTLESS ARGUMENTS!!!


Why would you wanna date someone who doesn't like you becaus of your race? And anybody who is trying to figure how many are sleeping with this or that.... why do you care?


It seems to me these thread are pointless and only divide people on this forum instead of producing results.

Anybody agree?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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saber, i agree with you, and if you go reread my last posts in my thread i state something like:

Women find certain tratis in certain races more attractive than in other races. I honestly belive this.

And if we could identify those tratis, we can learn from eachother, and that is the point of this whole forum, to learn from eachother.

But certain individuals make these threads a fight insteead of a learning experience.

I am open to learn from white men, as i do feel white men have certain tratis women prefer, and i also feel black men have certain tratis women prefer, and i am willing to discuss and offer those on a rational level, but most just want to drag these threads into the mud
 
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agree that some traits are prefered but how can you change the way you look?

Otherwise it's all just personality.

can you give an example?
 
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I am not talking looks here, i am talking personality.

if you would like to talk about this via email or private message, i think that would be better, as it is inevitable that this topic will get flamed by people who dont accept our points of view
 
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i read your thread and i think you hit the nail on the head as to why the issue comes up all the time.
I think a guys insecurities lead them to make excuses like girls like rich, tall, black, white ect ect guys because they examine the facts that reinforce their limiting beliefs.

sure pm me on some of your thoughts and we can chat
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ShortyMac said:
I am not talking looks here, i am talking personality.

if you would like to talk about this via email or private message, i think that would be better, as it is inevitable that this topic will get flamed by people who dont accept our points of view
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YEAH!!! Topics like personality have no place in this forum!!! :woo:
 
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