She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I agree.Originally posted by Vincent
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I agreed with everything you said but this is a really good tip for the young DJs. You should post it in the High School forum if you haven't already.Originally posted by Ak89
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A quick tip if you going on a date make sure you tell them to bring money. Cause some girls that i know don't bring **** and expect to go on the date or wateva you want to call it.
thanks for the adviceOriginally posted by Soma de Sade
Pimphop.com
Check the forums there.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thanks for the reply, Ive read alot of player supreme's stuff and he does seem to be on point.Originally posted by So Many Ways
Go to the mature forum and do a search for player supreme's posts. His method works good for us. There's nothing weird, just straight game. This link should get you a good start, it's a post with all his threads linked.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59989
Also I'd read weapons of mass seduction. It's on point in my opinion.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/wms.pdf
Good luck.
Yeah but those aggresive/gangsta girls are the type that i like the most. In my experience C/F only workes on them to a certain extent, but not enough.Originally posted by Ak89
Only problem is probably those aggresive/gangsta girls. Those are like the only girls you can't do things that make you look *****. Those the only girls i don't do certain things.