Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I agree.Originally posted by Vincent
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I agreed with everything you said but this is a really good tip for the young DJs. You should post it in the High School forum if you haven't already.Originally posted by Ak89
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A quick tip if you going on a date make sure you tell them to bring money. Cause some girls that i know don't bring **** and expect to go on the date or wateva you want to call it.
thanks for the adviceOriginally posted by Soma de Sade
Pimphop.com
Check the forums there.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
thanks for the reply, Ive read alot of player supreme's stuff and he does seem to be on point.Originally posted by So Many Ways
Go to the mature forum and do a search for player supreme's posts. His method works good for us. There's nothing weird, just straight game. This link should get you a good start, it's a post with all his threads linked.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59989
Also I'd read weapons of mass seduction. It's on point in my opinion.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/wms.pdf
Good luck.
Yeah but those aggresive/gangsta girls are the type that i like the most. In my experience C/F only workes on them to a certain extent, but not enough.Originally posted by Ak89
Only problem is probably those aggresive/gangsta girls. Those are like the only girls you can't do things that make you look *****. Those the only girls i don't do certain things.