You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I agree.Originally posted by Vincent
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I agreed with everything you said but this is a really good tip for the young DJs. You should post it in the High School forum if you haven't already.Originally posted by Ak89
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A quick tip if you going on a date make sure you tell them to bring money. Cause some girls that i know don't bring **** and expect to go on the date or wateva you want to call it.
thanks for the adviceOriginally posted by Soma de Sade
Pimphop.com
Check the forums there.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
thanks for the reply, Ive read alot of player supreme's stuff and he does seem to be on point.Originally posted by So Many Ways
Go to the mature forum and do a search for player supreme's posts. His method works good for us. There's nothing weird, just straight game. This link should get you a good start, it's a post with all his threads linked.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59989
Also I'd read weapons of mass seduction. It's on point in my opinion.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/wms.pdf
Good luck.
Yeah but those aggresive/gangsta girls are the type that i like the most. In my experience C/F only workes on them to a certain extent, but not enough.Originally posted by Ak89
Only problem is probably those aggresive/gangsta girls. Those are like the only girls you can't do things that make you look *****. Those the only girls i don't do certain things.