"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ninja Dude

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SO I been seeing this girl for about 3 months. EVerything is great, the sex is awesome and she treats me like a king.

LAst nite somethin weird happened tho..

All night long she is telling me how much she wants me and I am gonna flip out with all the things she wants to do to me. naturally i got home very horny!

she started to go down on me and I started to reach into her panties to get her motor running. Out of nowhere she stopped, grabbed my hand and told me she just could not go thru with it.

I thought mebbe she had her period, but it turns out she is really stressed out from work/family BS and admits to me she was thinking about her problems while giving me head.

Now I feel like an assh0le cause this poor girl is having major problems, and all i can think about is the fact that she pretends to be all horny when in fact she is anything but. In the morning she tried to start it up again but I was just not feeling it.

In fact, I am totally turned off by her now, cause I feel like she has been faking her passion in bed this whole time.

I just had lunch with her and when we said goodbye, I didnt even want to kiss her...like i am repulsed by her now.

IT may seem harsh but I am this close to nexting her...I just dont feel the same anymore.

Comments? Feedback?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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the only reason i can think of is the 1 you have already mentioned, that it is because it means she has been faking it all this time. There is not much you can do if you dont feel the same way about her any more, you mention she is having problems, well ill remind you incase you forget and do this, do not be here phyciatrist.
 

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THanks for the feedback checkmate.

The only reason I have not nexted her yet is because she treats me so damn well. SHe picks me up from work, cooks me dinner, gives me massages and usually we have lots of great sex (well at least its great for me)

Never had a girl go out of her way for me like this. Thinking mebbe I should be there for her because she has been a real trooper for me since day one.

Dunno, man..I am confused.

We are having dinner tonite, guess I will see how this plays out.
 

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if your there for her during her time of need,she'll show her gratitude with something that you can't mistake for "faking passion."Woman are emotional machines,but if she really love you then she'll give you the chance to be there for her.
 

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Keep her. She likes you so much that she tries to please you even when she's under a lot of pressure in other areas.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe she's gold!

Come on man!

Most of the girls out there are takers!

YOu should consider yourself lucky to have a girl doing all those things to you.

I had the same experience. She was doing things to me, offering herself to arrange my room and so on! That's so good, you feel like a king!

Of course you reciprocate, with caress, kisses, sex and so on!

But, you know, there're some girls that love to receive this treatment from guys, but give back nothing! (b!tches)

Relax man! ;)
 

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Can u say "Fatal Attraction"? This sounds actually scary with all the **** she does for you and it turns out she is nothing that she says she is (with her feelings and sex **** and stuff) I would run away from this girl while you still can dude. Just my 2 cents. peace
 
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