"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BJJ/Boxing killing me

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I've started BJJ again, and it's pretty f*cking intense.

I train three times a week minimum, usually for about 2-2.5 hours, at a Carlson Gracie Academy.

Today I fought just four 5-minute bouts, but I felt like I was going to die at the last one.

I'm 160, but pretty f*cking strong, and I went against this other white belt who's a cut and ripped guy probably weighing around 180. Strong f*ck.

We brawled it out for a few minutes, he almost submitted me in the rear naked, but I finally escaped, then he got me in the triangle choke the last 10 seconds.

I'm pissed I had to tap, but I was so f*cking tired. He was my last opponent, and I was already tired, and he just had so much more strength.

Anyway, I need some tips for recovery and staying strong.

I train BJJ three times a week, and only work out twice per week for about 45 minutes, focusing only on chest, legs, back, shoulders.

I'm losing all fat right now though and feeling like I'm dropping weight with all this cardio.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Since jerking off is obviously a major factor here, I'm going to estimate about 2-3 times per day.

I usually f*ck my gf at least once per day (she's not around now).

I'm 19.
 

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I need to get this handled too. I bet u tapped cos you gassed out. That happens to me because i simply have zero energy left and i am submitted with ****ty submissions cos i dont attempt any defense because im tottaly fecked!.

my routine is like urs too.

mon: BJJ - gi, 2 hours
tue: BJJ - no gi, 1.5 hours
wed: BJJ - gi, 2 hours
thurs: weights ( arms + back ) morning , kick boxing in evening, 2 hours
fri: weights ( chest + shoulders + tris )
sat: weights ( legs ) and option of BJJ no gi
sun: well deserved rest.


i need to get my cardio WAAAY up. How can i do it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Warboss Alex said:
post your diet.
It definately WAS my diet.

Now I'm back to eating at least 3000 calories per day, not the measly 2000 I was, THEN training like an animal and wondering why I felt like I was falling to pieces!
 

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If you take a week off bjj, and still lift/eat alot, you'll gain 3-4 pounds. The you'll lose around 2-3 when you go back.

I can still gain about a pound a month while doing bjj.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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