"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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UKLad

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Hey, I'm new to the site, so just like to say hi to everyone and hope you're doing OK!

So, tomorrow, theres a party type thing for us at one of our friends house as we've finished school for christmas now...and 3 of my mates there are with 3 of the girls...which just leaves me and one girl. She wants it to happen, and deep down I think i want it to happen, too.

Thing is I'm really nervous...we make good conversation for a few minutes and then I end up running out of things to say etc....which leaves it really akward. How can I improve on this?

Also, any tips on good kissing for 1st dates that will leave them wanting more would be great....:eek:

Please go easy on me :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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UKLad

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Hey I've got to go to bed now, so will have the chance to pop on for 5 mins tomorrow maybe so replies ASAP would be great please guys...
 

adamjones

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At the top of your screen there is a link for the bible....

It's prob where you should start...

In regard to tomorrow night just relax and let confidence ooze out of the pores of your skin... Be a man..
 

Desdinova

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Date four other chicks at the same time and the nervousness will go away.

Seriously, practice makes perfect. Also, remember that women are just human beings. They belch, fart, and scratch their ass like everyone else. Just because they're physically attractive, it doesn't mean they need to be worshipped.

If you quit putting high amounts of importance on women, you won't be afraid to make a move. Remember, they're just human beings.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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