"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey, I'm new to the site, so just like to say hi to everyone and hope you're doing OK!

So, tomorrow, theres a party type thing for us at one of our friends house as we've finished school for christmas now...and 3 of my mates there are with 3 of the girls...which just leaves me and one girl. She wants it to happen, and deep down I think i want it to happen, too.

Thing is I'm really nervous...we make good conversation for a few minutes and then I end up running out of things to say etc....which leaves it really akward. How can I improve on this?

Also, any tips on good kissing for 1st dates that will leave them wanting more would be great....:eek:

Please go easy on me :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey I've got to go to bed now, so will have the chance to pop on for 5 mins tomorrow maybe so replies ASAP would be great please guys...
 
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At the top of your screen there is a link for the bible....

It's prob where you should start...

In regard to tomorrow night just relax and let confidence ooze out of the pores of your skin... Be a man..
 
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Date four other chicks at the same time and the nervousness will go away.

Seriously, practice makes perfect. Also, remember that women are just human beings. They belch, fart, and scratch their ass like everyone else. Just because they're physically attractive, it doesn't mean they need to be worshipped.

If you quit putting high amounts of importance on women, you won't be afraid to make a move. Remember, they're just human beings.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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