"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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UKLad

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Hey, I'm new to the site, so just like to say hi to everyone and hope you're doing OK!

So, tomorrow, theres a party type thing for us at one of our friends house as we've finished school for christmas now...and 3 of my mates there are with 3 of the girls...which just leaves me and one girl. She wants it to happen, and deep down I think i want it to happen, too.

Thing is I'm really nervous...we make good conversation for a few minutes and then I end up running out of things to say etc....which leaves it really akward. How can I improve on this?

Also, any tips on good kissing for 1st dates that will leave them wanting more would be great....:eek:

Please go easy on me :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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UKLad

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Hey I've got to go to bed now, so will have the chance to pop on for 5 mins tomorrow maybe so replies ASAP would be great please guys...
 

adamjones

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At the top of your screen there is a link for the bible....

It's prob where you should start...

In regard to tomorrow night just relax and let confidence ooze out of the pores of your skin... Be a man..
 

Desdinova

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Date four other chicks at the same time and the nervousness will go away.

Seriously, practice makes perfect. Also, remember that women are just human beings. They belch, fart, and scratch their ass like everyone else. Just because they're physically attractive, it doesn't mean they need to be worshipped.

If you quit putting high amounts of importance on women, you won't be afraid to make a move. Remember, they're just human beings.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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