"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey, I'm new to the site, so just like to say hi to everyone and hope you're doing OK!

So, tomorrow, theres a party type thing for us at one of our friends house as we've finished school for christmas now...and 3 of my mates there are with 3 of the girls...which just leaves me and one girl. She wants it to happen, and deep down I think i want it to happen, too.

Thing is I'm really nervous...we make good conversation for a few minutes and then I end up running out of things to say etc....which leaves it really akward. How can I improve on this?

Also, any tips on good kissing for 1st dates that will leave them wanting more would be great....:eek:

Please go easy on me :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey I've got to go to bed now, so will have the chance to pop on for 5 mins tomorrow maybe so replies ASAP would be great please guys...
 
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At the top of your screen there is a link for the bible....

It's prob where you should start...

In regard to tomorrow night just relax and let confidence ooze out of the pores of your skin... Be a man..
 
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Date four other chicks at the same time and the nervousness will go away.

Seriously, practice makes perfect. Also, remember that women are just human beings. They belch, fart, and scratch their ass like everyone else. Just because they're physically attractive, it doesn't mean they need to be worshipped.

If you quit putting high amounts of importance on women, you won't be afraid to make a move. Remember, they're just human beings.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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