So there's this girl... we're not exactly 'together', but today's her birthday and she's pretty into me and I like her. We just haven't hooked up yet or anything. So, I usually wouldn't get a present for a girl or anything, but should I get her something or no? Like maybe a CD or something small... Good or bad idea?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
birthday present
- Thread starter eko
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
get her massage oil, and tell her you've been taking lessons...THERE!! two birds with one stone...or rather a pair of balls lol 
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
acutally i thought of a better one... go get a business card printed for a free 30 minute massage...make it look legit... give it her... on the card put your cell number... that way, when she calls, you'll come over and surprise her