So there's this girl... we're not exactly 'together', but today's her birthday and she's pretty into me and I like her. We just haven't hooked up yet or anything. So, I usually wouldn't get a present for a girl or anything, but should I get her something or no? Like maybe a CD or something small... Good or bad idea?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
birthday present
- Thread starter eko
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
get her massage oil, and tell her you've been taking lessons...THERE!! two birds with one stone...or rather a pair of balls lol 
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
acutally i thought of a better one... go get a business card printed for a free 30 minute massage...make it look legit... give it her... on the card put your cell number... that way, when she calls, you'll come over and surprise her