So there's this girl... we're not exactly 'together', but today's her birthday and she's pretty into me and I like her. We just haven't hooked up yet or anything. So, I usually wouldn't get a present for a girl or anything, but should I get her something or no? Like maybe a CD or something small... Good or bad idea?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
birthday present
- Thread starter eko
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
get her massage oil, and tell her you've been taking lessons...THERE!! two birds with one stone...or rather a pair of balls lol 
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
acutally i thought of a better one... go get a business card printed for a free 30 minute massage...make it look legit... give it her... on the card put your cell number... that way, when she calls, you'll come over and surprise her